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11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future 24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

Coaching Presence:

The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment

Tünde Erdös

Webinar

25 September

Research Conference Greenwich 2017

ISCP NOBCO Budapest ICF APECS TED BTP

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

AGENDA

Who am I as a coach? How does my being as a coach shape my research? What’s my purpose today? How will we work today?

Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

How will we work today?

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

What is interpersonal synchrony to you?

A school of fish

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

What is interpersonal synchrony to you?

Caregiver and baby

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

What is interpersonal synchrony to you?

Two clocks on the wall

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

What is interpersonal synchrony to you?

What do these pictures have in common?

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Coaching presence

Coaching presence Spontaneous responses Sense of belonging Safety of environment Confident sharing Presence through synchrony Timeliness of responses Visceral responses Sensitivity to needs Unspoken interactions Presence through attunement In-synch coupling Adoption of energy levels Swinging in unison Dancing in the moment

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? 11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Coaching presence

Coaching presence Spontaneous responses Sense of belonging Safety of environment Confident sharing Presence through synchrony Timeliness of responses Visceral responses Sensitivity to needs Unspoken interactions Presence through attunement In-synch coupling Adoption of energy levels Swinging in unison Dancing in the moment

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Exercise I

Who are you when you are at your best as a coach? How are you? Think of a moment when you experienced yourself as being fully present with a client of yours: How did you KNOW that you were present? What was the evidence for yourself? What do clients notice and what helps them to feel capacitated to deal with emotional stuff?

Self-reflection

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Exercise II – A client case with 3 volunteers

What would be possible responses of:

• being fully present,
• being not fully present?

IMAGINE

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Questions for volunteers - Recap

Use of self in coaching presence What is my visceral urge? (non-verbal response) How confidently can I share it? (e.g. risk taking, flexibility, openness to experience, courage) What do I notice is going on for my client? (sensitivity and responsiveness to client’s need) How will I notice my client feels really understood? (e.g. simplicity & lightness of relationship) How will my client notice? (e.g. safety, capacity to self-regulate) How am I talking to myself? What am I saying to myself? (.e.g. noise)

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Exercise III – What’s your mood?

There is intelligence in hidden sensation: we open the door to more meaning, greater courage, deeper connection The better you can feel yourself, the better you can share that feeling with your client This is BEING more as a relevant skill for both: coach & client

FELT-SENSE

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? 11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Exercise III – What’s your mood?

There is intelligence in hidden sensation: we open the door to more meaning, greater courage, deeper connection The better you can feel yourself, the better you can share that feeling with your client This is BEING more as a relevant skill for both: coach & client

FELT-SENSE

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Participate in my research project – Thank you!

www.ptc-coaching.com Email to: tuende.erdoes@ptc-coaching.com http://www.ptc-coaching.com/TündeErdös/youtube - for all video material http://www.ptc-coaching.com/TündeErdös/linkedin -> LinkedIn Profile http://www.ptc-coaching.com/TündeErdös/Bite-Sized-Videos -> Bite-sized series http://www.ptc-coaching.com/TündeErdös/synchrony -> Research website

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? 11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Participate in my research project – Thank you!

www.ptc-coaching.com Email to: tuende.erdoes@ptc-coaching.com http://www.ptc-coaching.com/TündeErdös/youtube - for all video material http://www.ptc-coaching.com/TündeErdös/linkedin -> LinkedIn Profile http://www.ptc-coaching.com/TündeErdös/Bite-Sized-Videos -> Bite-sized series http://www.ptc-coaching.com/TündeErdös/synchrony -> Research website

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Elements of presence examined in research

Level of spontaneity with which responses occur – dancing in the moment Level of sensitivity with which responses occur – the tango Level of reflexivity rather than reflectivity – timeliness of responses

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? 11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam,

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future

Elements of presence examined in research

Level of spontaneity with which responses occur – dancing in the moment Level of sensitivity with which responses occur – the tango Level of reflexivity rather than reflectivity – timeliness of responses

The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching?

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future 24th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference

11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands

Thank you!

Tünde Erdös

Webinar

25 September

Research Conference Greenwich 2017