Mike ke Usher er
Sector Lead, Health & Central Government Wales Audit Office
Impact and Influencing workshop!
Welcome to the
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Welcome to the Impact and Influencing workshop! Mike ke Usher er Sector Lead, Health & Central Government Wales Audit Office Impact Influence Your Personal Skills Toolbox First impressions count How long have you got..? The
Mike ke Usher er
Sector Lead, Health & Central Government Wales Audit Office
Welcome to the
Impact Influence
How long have you got..?
First impressions count…
The ‘Primacy Effect’ creates a lasting impression:
5 seconds = Entrance 20 seconds = Greeting 60 seconds = Rapport
Words = 7% Body = 55% Voice = 38%
Conclusion = It’s not WHAT you say,
The Mehrabian model:
it’s HOW you say it!
Vocabulary, Phrasing, Logical flow, Use of Facts / Reasoning / Emotion Tone, Pitch and modulation, Pace, Pauses, Intonation, [Accent?] Posture, Eye contact, Handshake, Facial expression, Gestures, Speed of movement
Words: Voice: Body:
Aristotle (384-322 BC) Persuasion = ‘the art of getting people to do something that they wouldn’t
Ethos Ethical – character & reputation Pathos Emotional appeal Logos Logic, reason and words
SITUATIONAL MOVEMENT RELATIONAL A PROCESS
INFLUENCING is…
ESTABLISH CREDIBILITY FRAME FOR COMMON GROUND CONNECT EMOTIONALLY PROVIDE EVIDENCE
wants / needs
commitment
emotions to your audience
judgement
and act in best interests of
benefits
audience
ask questions
stories, facts, metaphors, analogies
pictures
Preparation is vital!
DEMONSTRATE CONFIDENCE INVOLVE ME SHOW PASSION
HOW PEOPLE LIKE TO BE INFLUENCED
TRACK RECORD APPRECIATE ME GIVE ME EVIDENCE BE CLEAR
BEING PATRONISED HARD SELL TACTICS USE OF POWER OR AUTHORITY BEING MANIPULATED ASKING THEN DISCOUNTING IDEAS
INFLUENCING TURN-OFFS…
NOT WALKING THE TALK
understand themselves
Know your own core values and stay true to them:
= Authenticity Observe and learn from others, but don’t try to be someone else! Displayed in your behaviours
Building effective relationships:
Make an impact Develop rapport Generate interest Develop respect (and liking?) Create a lasting and positive impression
Influencing exercise:
need / hope to exercise some influence.
do not like to be influenced.
influence them to achieve your desired
Mik ike Ush sher
Sector Lead, Health & Central Government Wales Audit Office mike.usher@audit.wales 029 2032 0573
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