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Be interesting: What if?
What if dogs could be taught to speak? What would happen? Give some ideas Choose a topic below to briefly discuss with your group: What if China becomes the dominant economic power in the world? What if women were the only ones allowed to propose marriage? What if human cloning became available and relatively cheap? What if the HIV/AIDS level in the USA reached the level in parts of Africa?
PRESENTED BY NINA GINSBERG (T2 2018)
Be interesting: What if?
The ‘what if?’ approach involves playing with ideas Since ideas are being played out in the future, there is no way of checking which will happen and which will not Provides an open ended exploration = if it made to put forward ideas that are as ‘logical’ as possible For the sake of humour, the occasional ‘fantasy’ might be allowed This playful approach = simplest of situations can be turned into an interesting exploration TAKE AWAY: ‘What ifs?’ can add interest and encourage new
- considerations. Logical suggestions are best, but have some fun as well!
PRESENTED BY NINA GINSBERG (T2 2018)
Be interesting: Possibilities & Alternatives
Most discussion strives toward certainty: ‘this is the way this’ ‘that is not right’ ‘this is what should (not) happen’ Putting forward alternatives and other possibilities can make the discussion more interesting Possibilities can be explored, even if they are finally rejected
- Maybe tax can be handled in a different way the tax payer could decide with up to half
the tax being paid what the money should be used for: health, education, defense. This would allow for a sort of voting through taxation.
Alternative solutions could be offered for recognised problems or conflict
- situations. Once the solution has been offered then it can be discussed or
considered.
It is said that in the USA 75% of people marry someone with whom they work. This seems a very limited choice. What other alternatives could there be? Internet, newspaper columns, agencies, marriage brokers… Quite recently the lowest birth rates in Europe was in Spain, which is a Roman Catholic country that forbids contraceptive devices. What is happening?
PRESENTED BY NINA GINSBERG (T2 2018)
Be interesting: Speculation
Each step you take in a discussion can take you further and further into new possibilities and new ideas These can only be speculative – as they cannot be proven as ‘true’ You are too many people believe that thinking and talking should only be about the ‘truth’ It may be correct that we should only trust and act upon the truth but in
- rder to get there we may have to explore possibilities (as with the scientific
hypothesis) In conversation there is also the entertainment value Speculation also has a much higher entertainment value and truth = playing around with ideas is interesting, engaging and entertaining Speculation: Are the fewer women artists than men because women are more serious and have to get on with the serious business of life and families, while men can be more irresponsible, frivolous and self-indulgent? TAKEAWAY: not based on truth, but extends ideas & can be fun and engaging
PRESENTED BY NINA GINSBERG (T2 2018)
Be interesting: A most useful habit
Get into the habit of saying
‘Now that is interesting!’
Using this phrase will help reframe anything that comes up in conversation Instead of just carrying on with the flow of conversation, you now pause at that point… and you explore that point…
You can elaborate around the point You can open the possibilities and alternatives You can make connections You can ask for distinctions, definitions, exceptions and/or exemptions 1. You'll need to explain WHY you find that point interesting 2. You will need to build up and lay out the interesting aspects 3. You invite the other speaker to join you in exploring the point
TAKE AWAY: learn to use this phrase formally as an attention directing tool. Don't just wait for the attitude to arise. You need to ‘direct attention’ in a deliberate manner.
PRESENTED BY NINA GINSBERG (T2 2018)
Be interesting: Summary
- The truth is important, but so is being interesting
- Interest may arise from things you have done, are doing or know about
- Use ‘what if?’ to open up new possibilities and lines of thought
- Look out for possibilities and alternatives to in enrich discussion
- There is usually more than one way of doing or looking at things
- Speculation looks forward and opens up new areas of interest
- Description only looks backwards
- Find & make connections = link ideas together & generate interest
- Use the phrase ‘Now that is interesting’ to direct attention
- When someone else opens up an interesting line of thought, go along
with it and help to develop the interest further
PRESENTED BY NINA GINSBERG (T2 2018)