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WHEN HOME IS NO LONGER AN OPTION FOR MY CHILD HOW DO YOU PARENT WHEN YOU CANT HELP YOUR CHILD? Simple sounding answer 1. When they arent safe at home 2. There isnt a therapeutic plan to change #1 How do you know when it is time?


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WHEN HOME IS NO LONGER AN OPTION FOR MY CHILD

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HOW DO YOU PARENT WHEN YOU CAN’T HELP YOUR CHILD?

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Simple sounding answer

  • 1. When they aren’t safe at home
  • 2. There isn’t a therapeutic plan to change #1
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How long have they been at this level of struggle?

How do you know when it is time?

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How far behind in school is he?

How do you know when it is time?

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How many other placements has she been in?

How do you know when it is time?

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Why haven’t you placed before?

How do you know when it is time?

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How long have you thought about this decision?

How do you know when it is time?

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How inappropriate are their friends?

How do you know when it is time?

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Is RAD part of their Diagnosis?

How do you know when it is time?

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What is the level of physical, emotion and “influence” safety you can provide at home?

How do you know when it is time?

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Fear of abandonment

Parent Fears

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Your child will never forgive you

Parent Fears

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Judgment

Parent Fears

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Your child will meet worse kids

Parent Fears

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We can’t afford it

Parent Fears

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Our marriage can’t take this

Parent Fears

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How To Select A Program

  • License and accreditations
  • Knowing their “lane”
  • Staff ratios
  • Therapy model
  • School resources
  • Family integration
  • Spiritual integration
  • Proximity
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What’s Important During The Program

  • Build trust
  • Letters and phone calls
  • Self-care
  • Preparing for your kid to come

home

  • Individual and couples therapy
  • Parent weekends
  • Home visits
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Difficult Placements

  • RAD
  • Conduct Disorder
  • Sexually Aggressive Behavior
  • Gender/Sexual Identity
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Transitioning Your Child Home

  • Planning starts at intake
  • Preparing whole family
  • Preparing your child
  • Two Keys
  • Parent Coach
  • Child Mentor
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QUESTIONS?

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NEXT STEP

  • Two Action Steps
  • Support
  • Email Follow-up
  • Sign-up sheet
  • RefreshConf to 44222
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CONNECT

TheEnvoyGroup.com

theenvoygroup.com/help bestchristianboardingschools.com tamara@theenvoygroup.com

ProjectPatch.org

360.690.8495 info@projectpatch.org