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G ROWING UP Tech Smart Collegedale, Tennessee Pastors & Teachers JOHN 10:10 THE THIEF COMES TO STEAL, KILL AND DESTROY Jesus FREQUENCY OF CONTACT WITH PORN 49% 37% The Porn Phenomenon by Barna Group REGULAR PORN USE BY AGE, GENDER

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GROWING UP

Tech Smart

Pastors & Teachers

Collegedale, Tennessee

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THE THIEF COMES TO STEAL, KILL AND DESTROY

Jesus

JOHN 10:10

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FREQUENCY OF CONTACT WITH PORN

The Porn Phenomenon by Barna Group

49% 37%

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REGULAR PORN USE BY AGE, GENDER AND RELIGIOUS PRACTICE

The Porn Phenomenon by Barna Group

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GAME RISKS

DIYfather.com, webmd.com
  • 9% pathologically or clinically addicted
  • 23% of youth say they are addicted
  • 44% say their friends are addicted

www.pluggedin.com

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INCREASE IN DEPRESSION

Increases in Depressive Symptoms, Suicide-Related Outcomes, and Suicide Rates Among U.S. Adolescents After 2010 and Links to Increased New Media Scree Time - Jean M. Twenge, Thomas E. Joiner, Megan L. Rogers - https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2167702617723376

Rates of depression and anxiety have skyrocketed since 2011 when smart phone ownership by teens passed 50%

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INCREASE IN SUICIDAL RISK

Increases in Depressive Symptoms, Suicide-Related Outcomes, and Suicide Rates Among U.S. Adolescents After 2010 and Links to Increased New Media Scree Time - Jean M. Twenge, Thomas E. Joiner, Megan L. Rogers - https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2167702617723376
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LAUNCH PROCESS

Age

Birth “Adult”

Parent Child

Responsible Not Responsible

Teach & Discipline Coach & Mentor Motivation Internal External

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If you don’t own the “off” button, who does?

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LET’S NOT FREAK OUT

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LAGGING INDICATORS

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LAGGING INDICATORS

Fix the problem, not the gauge

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WHAT IS FUELING ADDICTION?

  • Shame
  • Ignorance
  • Fear of overreaction
  • People pleasing
  • Perfectionism
  • Entitlement
  • Hopelessness
  • Loneliness
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FOCUS ON RECOVERY OVER ABSTINENCE

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Rules Values Buffer Rules

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“I’m not interested in a world where men really want to watch porn but resist because they’ve been shamed; I’m interested in a world where men are raised from birth with such an unshakeable understanding of women as living human beings that they are incapable of being aroused by their exploitation.”

Jonah Mix

HTTPS://WWW.ELEPHANTJOURNAL.COM/2016/10/WHAT-BOYS-NEED-TO- KNOW-ABOUT-PORNOGRAPHY-BUT-ARE-NOT-BEING-TOLD/

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Your relationships are under attack

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ADDICTION SEPARATES US FROM PEOPLE - MAKES US CONSUMERS OF PEOPLE

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REDUCES WAYS FOR GOD TO WORK IN OUR LIVES AND FOR US TO EXPERIENCE HIM

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THE FRACTURED MIND

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AVOID RATHER THAN PURSUE OUR WORST FEARS

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How are self-efficiency and unhealthy dependence impacting our kids?

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How is fear of intimacy impacting relationships?

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How do we normalize the “backstage” life?

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NEXT STEP

▸ Email Follow-up ▸ OffSwitch to 44222 ▸ Sign-up sheet ▸ https://projectpatch.lpages.co/

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▸ chuck@projectpatch.org

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CONNECT

www.projectpatch.org Facebook.com/projectpatch @projectpatch & @chuckhagele 360-690-8495 TodaysFamilyExperience.com