SLIDE 1 SAY IT RIGHT
The Power of Coaching
Tasneem Minadakis @tazneemiandevil
SLIDE 2 2005 2014 2015 2002
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What makes a great leader?
SLIDE 4 BUILDS TRUST
DEVELOPS & COACHES DELIVERS RESULTS GROWS & ADAPTS SETS VISION
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Who do you trust and why?
SLIDE 6 THE SPEED OF TRUST
Trust - You Know It When You Feel It
SLIDE 7 “I look for three things in hiring people. The first is personal integrity, the second is intelligence, and the third is a high energy level. But, if you don’t have the first, the other two will kill you”
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Integrity Results Capability Intent
Character Cores Competency Cores
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EFFECTIVE COACH
Trust Respect Care
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Develop & Coach
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THE FRAMEWORK
Strengths & Areas of Growth Energy & Passion Balance Strength, Passion, Growth Deliver Feedback
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MOTIVATE
AUTONOMY MASTERY PURPOSE
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If your manager primarily: The chances of you being actively disengaged are: Ignores you 40% Focuses on your weaknesses 22% Focuses on your strengths 1%
SLIDE 15 STRENGTHS FINDER
“Most People Think They Know What They Are Good At. They Are Usually Wrong … And Yet, A Person Can Perform Only From Strength.”
- Peter Drucker, Business Guru
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GOAL REALITY OPTIONS WILL
SLIDE 17 Understanding
Closed questions Open questions Clarifying questions Confirming questions
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Guide Delegate Direct Excite
Skill Will
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Guide
Skill Will Be clear about outcomes Identify and provide training Accept “early” mistakes and coach Provide frequent feedback Praise and reward success
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Direct
Skill Will Discuss motivation Be clear about outcomes Identify and provide training Set clear rules, deadlines Provide frequent feedback Praise and reward success
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Delegate
Skill Will Be clear about outcomes Involve in decision making Give responsibility and authority Provide feedback Praise and reward success
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Excite
Skill Will Discuss importance of task Discuss motivation Give responsibility and authority Provide frequent feedback Praise and reward success
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Guide Delegate Direct Excite
Skill Will
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DELIVER FEEDBACK
Specific Actionable Timely Balanced
SLIDE 25 MAKE IT SPECIFIC
Situation Behavior Impact / Outcome describe the Situation the behavior (what they did) the Impact of that behavior
then discuss & clarify, create options, agree on next steps
SLIDE 26 Negative Non-Specific Negative Specific Positive Non-Specific Positive Specific
MAKE IT ACTIONABLE
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MAKE IT TIMELY
Tailor the method (email, IM, real-time, 1x1) Don’t wait till the next review cycle Tailor the timeliness of feedback
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MAKE IT BALANCED
Avoid deficits When managing out, maintain trust Avoid “Feedback Sandwich”
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Put It All Together
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SLIDE 31 “Expectation is the root of all heartache.”
SLIDE 32 “Would I rather be feared or loved? Easy, both. I want people to be afraid of how much they love me. “
- Michael Scott, The Office
SLIDE 33 “Never make assumptions about someone based on your past experience with someone else.“
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Q&A