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Available in more than 3O states in the u.s. Available in some communities ín Spanish as Dè Persona a Persona de NAMI. NAMI is the NationalAlliance on Mental

lllness, the nationrs largest gråssroots mental health organization. NAMI provides advocacy, education, support and public âwareness so that all individuals and families

affected by mental illness can build better

lives.

lf you are seeking support or need information on how to better manage a mental health challenge in yourself or a loved one, you êre not alone. l.JAMl is here for you. NAMI supports and enriches you and your family's unique journey towards mental health and wellness. Our outstanding peer- ted programs provide free education, skills training and support. Thousands of trained volunteers are bringing these programs to their communities every day. We invite you to join our movement to ensure better lives for everyone. To locate a class, visit nami,orgy'local and contäct the NAMI affiliate in your area.

www,nantilðrs/pzp NAMlHelpLine 80û-95O-NAMI or info@nami.org

NAMI Santa Glara County National Alliance on Mental lllness

1 150 S. Bascom Avenue, Ste. 24

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E-mail: ptp@namisantaclara.org Website: www.namisantaclara.org

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What should I expect?

An education program focused on mental health, wellness ånd rêcovery

for anyone exper¡ênc¡ng a mentâl health challenge.

Find hope in knowing you'ie not alone. Pursuing mental health involves patience, courage and the support of others. NAMI is here to help. NAMI Peer-to-Peer offers inforrnation, resources änd a cornmunit5r irf,support tö aid you in developing your own recovery

  • plan. Whether you're seeking to overcome

stigma, manage tough faniily relationships

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course provides the opportunity ts get new ideas frorn others with s¡rnilârexperiences.

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Open to adr"llts (18+) living with mental health challenges.

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Meets for 1O sessions.

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Free of cost to participants.

. Guided by peers who successfully rnanage their o$/n recovery and wellness. .

No specific medical therapy or medication is enclorsed or recommended.

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Find support in a sincere, confidential setting.

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Create personalized relapse prevention plans,

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Become your own advocate.

. lmprove coping and problem solving skills. .

Learn about cemmunity resources.

Why should I attend?

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OUR ASPIRATIONS

"We ARE -

A TEAM that is emotionally supportive of each other by practicing Compassion, Respect, Understanding and Patience. As a TEAM, we maintain Goodwill by Assuming the Best in Others, Communicating and Clarifying. We are Open-minded

toward Change, Tolerant of Disappointment, and able to Learn from Mistakes without Blame. We focus on our Missíon and how to achieve it, not on differences or problems." "We DO-

  • Communicate our needs
  • Plan ahead
  • Listen and validate
  • Maintain both Confidentiality and Open Doors, Talking over concerns and issues with the persons involved, and

avoiding talking about others in their absence unless a concern needs to be addressed confidentially with a supervisor

  • Celebrate our differences in outlook and experience.
  • Practice Transparency ín our conversations, regardless of position or status, speaking the Truth with Love in a caring

and gentle way.

  • Exercise Self-Caring and Self-Compassion, Taking Ownership of our own feelings and extending the same Courtesy to
  • thers.

NEVER GIVE UP!

Date Name: (Print) Signature: NAM I Representative/Manager:

1 150 South Bascom Ave.,Ste. 24

San José, CA95128-3509

Phone: 1.408.453.0400 . Fax: 1.408.453.2100 E-mail: info@namisantaclara.org . Website: www.namisantaclara.org

NAMI Santa Clara County is a 501(c) (3) non-profit volunteer orgarnzation dedicated to improving the quality of life for people with

mental illness and their families through support, education and advocacy. NAMI Santa Clara County is the local affiliate of the National Alliance on Mental Iilness (NAMD and NAMI California. Federal Tax# 94-2430956

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Peer Support Center

NAMI Signature Program Code of Conduct

NAMI signature programs are built around the principles of mutual trust and respect among participants and leaders. Certified program teaders are representatives òf runn¡l and NAMI holds these leaders to certain standards of conduct Ouring the provision of NAMI services- This Code of Conduct is covered during leader trainfngs and is included in all NAMI signature program manuals so that participánts also know what to expect from NAMI programs

what we ask of you as a NAMI signature program participant:

  • Attend programs with an open mind and open heart.

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Maintain the confidentiality of all participants by not discussing personal topics

  • utside the program.

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Take from the program the information that you believe is most helpful for you.

r Find an atmosphere of supporl in the program that enables you to feel comfortable

sharing with others, knowing that what you share will be respected and held in confidence by the other participants. What we ask of you as a NAMI signature program leader:

. Provide a safe and respectful environment for program participants. '

Prepare for each class, group meeting or presentation and conduct yourself, to the best of your ability, with courteous and respectful behavior.

n Actively pursue maintaining your own wellness and respect your own emotional and

physical resources and limitations.

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Understand the difference between peer support and therapy and be careful not to act in the capacity of a therapist or mentat health professíonãt. Oter only the services that you have been trained to provide and ask for assistance as needed.

n Respect the cultural differences of program participants. '

Respect the privacy of program participants by creating an environment of confidentiality in the program setting and by holding in

  • confidence

sensitive, private and personal information. As a NAMI program leader, you must also be prepared to break confidentiality when you believe there is a danger of harm to a partícipant or

  • thers.
  • Maintain appropriate boundaries by not engaging in romantic, physical or sexual

relationships with participants in a NAMI program you are leaOing. Recognize that it is best practice for participants to attend a class or support grouf not led by

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someone w1h whom they are in a retationship, to avoid potential conflict and the discomfort of other ParticiPants. Remain accountablä tor your own behavior and keep personal opinions and actions separate from those made as a representative of NAMI. Understand that your

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and behaviors reflect on the integrity of NAMI signature programs and impact the public perception of NAMI as an organization' NAMI Peer'to-Peer Recovery Education Program 2014

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Week l/Orientation Welcome Introductions

Course orientation Questions and answers

Week 2 Icebreaker Group ground rules Discussion on course values Mental illnesses as traumatic experiences

Consumer stages of recovery Stigma Culture Mindfulness

Week3

'olt's not my fault, - mental illnesses as no_blame disorders

Brain biology and research

The challenges and benefits of medication Relapse prevention Creative visualization Mindfulness Week 4

Storytelling - sharing of personal experiences Mindfulness

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Week5

lnformation and discussion about:

  • SchizoPhrenia
  • Depression
  • Bipolar Disorder

. Schizoaffective Disorder

  • Borderline Personality Disorder

Relapse Prevention continued Accóunts of wisdom and strength

Mindfulness Week 6 Information and discussion about:

  • Generalized AnxietY Disorder
  • Panic Disorder

r Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Dual Diagnosis

Relapse Prevention continued Substance abuse and addiction The role ofaccePtance in recovery

Mindfulness

WeekT

Understanding emotions Complete reiaPse Prevention Focusing on exPeriences ofjoY Spirituality P-hysical heaith an<i mental health Mindfulness

Week I Suicide and Prevention Coming out of isolation Mental illness and discloswe

iJt-tto*" tool for making difficult choices

Surviving a hosPital staY

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Making Mindfulness Week 9

Guest sPeaker Hot buttons and triggers

Working with Providers Advancè Directive continued

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lncarceratlon - survlvar iluLr P¡wyqtvs¡rvv Mindfulness Week L0 Another look at consumer stages of recovery Empowerment AdvocacY

óppotto"ities for involvement in NAMI

Mindfulness Evaluations Celebration

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Our Mission NAMI Santa Clara County's mission is to help people living with mental illness, families and the community by providing support, education and advocacy for those suffering from mental illness; to promote research; to reduce stigma and discrimination; and to ¡mprove services by working w¡th mental health professionals and families.

VOTUNTEER CODE OF CONDUCT CERTIFICATE OF UNDERSTANDING AND COMPTIANCE

lhavereadandbeenprovidedapersonalcopyoftheCodeofConductforNAMISantaClaraCounty(NAMISCC).

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understand this Code of Conduct and I will comply with it. I have had an opportunity to ask questions and seek clarification about it. My questions have been answered to my satisfaction and understanding. Any volunteer who violates this code is subject to discipline, may include dismissal from performing any activities or duties for this

  • rganization.

I understand that I am accountable for my own behavior and will keep personal opinions and actions separate from

those made as a representative of NAMI SCC. I understand that my actions and behaviors reflect the integrity of NAMI

SCC and impact the public perception of NAMI SCC as an organization.

The purpose of this code is to provide a safe and respectful environment for all NAMI SCC staff, participants and visitors during NAMISCC's business hours, events and activities. To that end NAMI SCC requires adherence to the following standards: No bullying, stalking, abusive or threatening language or behavior No physical violence either actual or threatened No possession of explosives, firearms or weapons of any kind No possession, distribution or being under the influence of illegal drugs and/or alcohol No harassment whether verbal, visual, written or physical No conduct endangering life, safety, health or well-being of others No theft or unauthorized removal or possession of property íncluding identity theft No unauthorized use of NAMI SCC equípment (i.e. phones, copier, fax, postage) No lingering inside or outside of NAMt SCC office No refusal to cooperate with NAMI SCC staff or authorized supervisors I have read and agree to this Code of Conduct standards: NAME (print) Date Signature A copy of this signed Certificate of Understanding and Compliance shall be on file at the NAMI SCC office

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what we can Do... (other than fix, save, advise or set straight)

least, this means we must seek to understand what makes the

person/eel honored and then consistently treat him or her accordingly.

seek to understand what makes each individualfeel respected and

then consistently treat each individual accordingly.

Þ Accept each individual completel¡ unconditionally and exactly for

who he or she is in this moment. At the very least, this means we must set aside biases, preconceived notions and prejudice, and we must demonstrate our acceptance without the leãst suggestion of judgment or that we perceive any need for the person iãcnange. valuing--valuing and validating not just what person says and

does, butwho he or she is.

Þ Approach the person with the conscious mindset that absolutely

anyone and everyone can recover, can experience genuine

wellbeing and can create a meaningfur life of their ówn

choosing-a mindset that sees no limits and that Ís not

constrained by medical models.

  • pportunity, shine light on the concrete reasons we see for the

person to embrace clear-eyed hope for better tomorrows.

their worldview and the meaning they make of their experience,

and then validate those experiences and all their input åt "u".y

  • pportunity.

treat each person with the dignity due an equal.

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her whole-hearted comPassion'

  • ptions and resources, yet humbly refrain from giving final

answersorsteeringpeopletowardourownanswers.

than anyone else does, and that personal experience gives us a-narticê nn r¡-rhat vvork-s for us and on what doesn't'

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How We Can Validate and Value People:

/ seek First to understand: when'nve seek first to understand we

put aside any agenda of our own, and,Iísten we just listen and try to understand *tt"t the person is saying from their perspective' This understanding has to be rooted Ín the context of the person's life, not our own. Thit t"k"s time and often we need to encourage more input through honest, open-ended questions. we will understand when we see theii "truth" in the context of their lives'

/ show Real understanding: Firs! if we don't understand, we

continue seeking to undeistand. If we think we understanci' we

express what *ã thittk we understand and seek confirmation that we have grasped the person's meaning. If we are not quiie there rrar rrrê r¡-rntinue see'1.:ins sûme more, and expressing what we

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understand until we get confirmation that we've got it right'

/ BeMindfutly Present: we choose to put everything else out our

minds for a-moment and we listen to what the person is saying

with our eyes and our ears, and with our open hearts and open

  • minds. We listen with no other intention but to understand from

the Person's living PersPective'

/ Validate Input and Feelings: We show that we see the truth and

the value oitt " person's ãxperience, and the meaning they have taken away from it. we suggest no hintof disagreement, nor do we need tó agree. We simply see what the person is saying

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VOLUNTEER OPP ORTIINITTE S

NAMI Santa Clara County is a volunteer grassroots organization that provides support,

education and advocacy for families and friends of those with severe mental illness. For us to be able to expand our commitment, we need more volunteers who are interested in promoting and

improving NAMI Santa Clara County's services and programs for our community.

Here are just some ways you can help, please mark the areas in which you can help:

n Help with General Office W'ork ¡Brochure Delivery rWriting Letters

¡ Social Media I Help with Events n Fundraising n NAMIV/alk

¡ Data Entry ¡ Other

Have you taken any of NAMI Classes? (Fømíly-to-Famíly Cløss; Peer-to-Peer Class; Províder

Educatíon Course) Here øre øfew more wøys you cøn be ínvolved:

¡ Warmline Help Desk n Teach NAMI Classes ¡ Facilitate Support Groups

n Help with Events/Outreach

*Please refer to the next page for detailed definition of volunteer opportunities

How do you think you will be able to add value with your skills and experience to our NAMI

Santa Clara County Community Resource Center?

How do you think volunteering at NAMI will benefit

Please indicate the day(s) and time(s) that you are able to volunteer

OM OTu OW OTh OF OSa OSu Hours

Name Address

City

State

Home Phone Cell V/ork Phone E-mail

NAMI Srnta Clara County

1150 S. Bascom Ave. Suite 24 San Jose, CA 95128-3509

Tel 408 453 0400. Fax 408 453 Zl00 URL www.namisantaclara.org

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@nR;mliSanta Clara Counfy

NAMI Santa C,lara County is a volunteer grassroots organization that provides support,

education and advocacy for families and friends of those with severe mental illness' For us to be able to expand our commitment, we need more volunteers who are interested in promoting and improving NAMI Santa Clara County's services and programs for our community. Here are just some ways you can help, please mark the areas in which you can help:

I Help with General Office Work - Prepare bulk mailings; folding newsletters, labeling

and folding brochures, stuffing envelopes and work on projects as needed.

¡ Broelmre Ðelivery - Distribution ofNAMI educational materials at various locations such

as hospitals and community centers. A car and a valid driver's license is needed.

I Writing Letters - Good writing skills to help us with the outreach to local companies and

  • communities. 'Write letters to community agencies when services for the people living with

mental illnesses are inadequate or inappropriate.

n Social Media - Announce NAMI events and help promote awareness about related issues. I Help with Outreach Events - Staff the NAMI booth table atvarious community

events/functions.

n Help with Special Events - Help organize anniversaries, fundraising events, holiday

drives (experience or ganízinglarge events needed)

n Fundraising - experience with fundraising, writing proposals, making telephone calls. Grant

writing experience is a plus.

I NAMIWaIk - Form or join a team for the annual NAMI walk. This is a major fundraising

event for NAMI and an opportunity to raise awareness on issues surrounding mental illnesses.

J Dafa Entry - Basic knowiedge of Excei and Access. Transfer of dala. Dala analysis is a plüs.

¡ Other

Have you taken any of NAMI Classes (Family-to-Family Peer-to-Peer; Provider Education

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n Warm Line Volunteering - Answer phone calls, provide support and information, assist

walk-ins, 2-4hovr shifts in the office.

n Teach NAMI Classes - Teach one of NAMI classes upon completing a training. n Facilitate Support Groups - Facilitate a support group for people living with a mental

illness and family mernbers.

I Help with Events/Outreach - Provide information on NAMI services and programs.

For more information on how to volunteer at NAMI Santa Clara County, please contact us at : volunteerco ordinator@namis antaclara. or g

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A Brief overview of The Art, of Facilitating self-Determination=

The Art of Facilitating Self-Determination is a five-day personal and professional

development workshop that deepens our understanding of human motivation, strengthens our capacity to make connections, and focuses the mindfulness with which we facilitate the freely chosen growth and development of others. Whether

  • ne is working with groups, working with individuals, or striving to better support

self-determination within one's family, The Art of FacíIitating Self-Determinationwill clarifii the principles behind facilitating change, help grow personal self-awareness

and deepen intentionality, and provide practical experience in the role of the

  • facilitator. Two-day workshops (without practicums) are also available.

The Art of FacíIitatíng Self-Determination is based on decades of observation of a

wide range of formal and informal human efforts to influence change in others, through which we have learned about what helps, what doesn't help and what hurts.

Our observations validate Self-Determination Theor¡ verif,i the strong influence of

a facilitator's mindset and worldview, and confirm the importance of intentionality

in all we say and do in our role as facilitators. We have learned that:

€ Our human potential is to flourish. e We are all capable of flourishing because we all possess deep-rooted and

keenly evolved tendencies toward growth and development.

s Our potential to flourish can be nourished, or it can be undermined. e Our potential is most fully realized when growth and development are freely

chosen and when self-determination is intentionally fostered through

supportive social, cultural and environmental conditions.

The Art of Facílítating Self-Determinatíon grew out of the understanding that every

engagement with another person presents us with the opportunity to be a nurturing influence rather than a managing director. Where we nurture, natural healthy

growth occurs-Ín its own way and at its own pace. Where we attempt to steer or

manage growth, natural resistance distorts it and harms the human soul.

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The Art of Facilitatíng Self-Determinotionharnesses our iatural human motivation

and potential to flourish-we all have a natural tendency to seek out challenges, the

unfamiliar, and opportunities to learn-and we seek to integrate what we learn from the world around us into a meaningful whole throughout our lives. The Art of Facilitating Self-Determination is the "art" of working with our basic human needs for connectedness, autonomy, and competence without getting in the way of any individual's choices in creating the life he or she wants. The Five-Day Seminar:

To facilitate self-determina-tion is to enter into relationships with others in ways

that stimulate critical thinking wíthoutfixing, saving, advising or setting the other straight, so it cannot be "taught" like History. This is an interactive seminar where the learning is mutual and new knowledge emerges from the group during open yet

focused discussion s. The Art of Facilítatíng Self-Determination is about growing self- awareness through reflection, learning to sit with discomfort, and becoming

intentional in all we say and do. Therefore the workshop facilitates the growth of

each participant's personal experiential understanding of self:determination and

the art of facilitation. The following is a much-condensed overview of the fourteen modules that make up the workshop:

In Module Ane, What's This AII AboutT we explore:

O The concepts of "Facilitation" and "self-determination' O The role of the facilitator in easing this process of self-determination.

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In Module Two, Feeling Safe and Valued,we explore:

O How the practical foundation of facilitating self-determination is a learning

environment that fosters feelings of safety and being valued, which the facilitator

is responsible for creating and maintaining.

O The importance of anticipating that people bear some woundedness from Life,

but their woundedness is not an expression of weakness; carrying on, bearing

their many wounds, demonstrates their profound strength.

O The importance of having everything we say and do demonstrate the value we

place on others and their contributions,

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In Module Three, "Thís I Believe," we explore:

O The importance of knowing what we stand for and the necessity of leaving room

for the beliefs of others when we express what we think we "know."

O The importance of remembering that speaking our own truths isn't about being

"right" or about making others appear "wrong" because they see things

  • differently. We each have a piece of the truth.

O .The importance of remembering there isn't one right way to respond when we

feel challenged by the "truth" of another. we simply stay grounded in suspending all judgments and in valuing the other.

In Module Four, Prínciples That Govern RelationshÍps, we explore:

O The concept of príncíples that govern human relations, and how valuesthat can

reliably guide our facilitation are deeply rooted in these governing principles.

  • How our worldvíew shapes our choices and can even mislead them, but

governing principles determine their consequences.

  • How a clear understanding of "true north" principles can help us avoid the

negative consequences of violating principles and enjoy the benefits of adhering to them.

In Module Five, Intentionality,we explore:

O How effective facilitators are fully intentional (i,e., purposeful) about everything

we say and do, which means we are fully present and mindful with others, and give our full attention to our task and to the total environment we work in.

O How intentionality isn't an ordinary state of mind and can easily be undermined

by "default settings," assumptions or an unreliable worldview/mindset.

O How "conveying what we intend" depends on understanding how we

communicate and on making our non-verbal communication as intentional as

  • ur choice of words and tone.

In Module Six, Síttíng With Discomfort,we explore:

C How our role is to ease a process that can make others feel uneasy, and howthis

requires the facilitator to sit with considerable discomfort, surroúnded by multiple sources of un-ease

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O What our own experience teaches us about sources of personal discomfort and

about which tools can best help us sit with discomfort as we pursue our goals, and the worth going through discomfort to get the benefits on the other side.

O How the essenc e of sitting with discomfort involves connecting with goals that

motivate us, and embracing discomfort as an acceptable cost of achieving them. In Module Seven, Resísting Temptationto Fin Save or Advtse, we explore:

O How the desire to alleviate the suffering of others is natural and noble, yet fixing,

car;inq anrì arh¡isins have been demonstrated to undermine self-determination.

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O How through practice it is possible to learn to sit with discomfort, resist the

temptation to fix, save and advise others, and instead validate the feelings of

thoJe who ask for fixing, saving or advising but leave choice to the individual'

O How through practice, we can learn to support well-informed self-determination

by staying true to our clearly defined role as facilitators.

In Module Eight Growing Self-Awareness, we explore:

O How, in order to facilitate self-determination for others, we are first obliged to

grow our own self-awareness aroun d how we know whatwe know and all the

l"y".t of cuìture, assumption, prejudice, and irrational belief we may hold.

O How companions who share our journey and regard us as mutual supporters can

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O How, no matter how seii-aware we become, there are things like poverty,

violence and oppression that can hold anyone back, so ultimately growing our self-awareness extends to exploring how we are working for social justice.

In Module Nine, Re'Storyíng Our Introductions,we explore:

O How, in introducing ourselves, we also introduce the information we represent,

the dffirence this material has made in our lives, and how the concept of self-

determination is tied to the choices we make.

O How people will judge the as yet unknown information we are about to present

by what ihey first see in us, and how they will also judge the possibili6u of self.

determination by what they see of it in us'

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C How effective introductions offer a glimpse of past struggle, a clear picture of a

better presen! and a strong sense of the brighter future that the information is helping us create for ourselves-and how a great introduction then welcomes people into a shared journey toward brighter futures. In Module Ten, Presentation.s/<itls and Practices, we explore:

C How the information we present is first a resource worthy of consideration and

a sufficient reason for bringing people together, and then it provides an

  • pportunity to learn from our own experience and from each other,

O How presenting information as potentiaþ useful stimulates the hearer's critical

faculties, encouraging them to carefully weigh what they hear and decide for themselves whether this new information is indeed personally useful.

O How we don't need to sell anything, because the value of what we are presenting

is well expressed through our careful and knowledgeable organization of the

material, through our sincerity, and through our obvious enthusiasm for it.

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acilitatíon As IJ nc onditional valuing,we explore:

O The importance of centering our facilitation on uncondítíonal valuing and the

need to understand a variety of practical means to put it into practiCe.

O The importance of being mindfully presen! seeking always to understand the

  • ther, and clearly expressing what we understand and learn from the other.

O How we can give people time to express their views and then validate them by

showÍng that we see their value, and how this depends on filtering out any judgment that comes from our own prejudices.

In Module Twelve, Facilitating The Emergence of New Knowledge, we explore:

C How passion for our own information and our concern that people understand it

can result in "teaching" our piece of the truth as Truth, which invariably gets in

the way of easing access to all the options.

O How we create opportunities for listening to multiple perspectives when we:

very briefly preview our topic; concisely presentkey points and illustrations that show how the information matters to us;facilitate a discussion that invites the expression of alternative perspectives by others and allows new knowledge to emerge; and, close with a concise summaty that includes the input of others.

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O How, if we spen d. no more than 25o/o of our time on preview, presentation and

summary, and no morethanZío/o anour illustrations and offering our own perspective, we will have no less than 50o/o of our time left for facilitating a rich discussion from which everyone learns sornething new.

In Module Thirteen, Attendíng And Responding,we explore:

O How seeing people on the raw edge of emotional distress can knockanyone off

their emotional center, and how it can knock us out of the role of facilitator.

O How important it is to have a realistic picture of certain scenarios facilitators are

likely to face and a sense of how others and we might personally respond to distress in similar situations.

O How important it is to know one's own strengths as revealed through practice'

In Module Fourteen, Essential Elements,we summarize the essential elements of a

week's learning about facilitating self-determination with individuals and groups. Summary: In the end, becoming a Facilitator of Self-Determination is a matter of who we choose to be, rather than a matter of special skill sets or techniques we acquire. Techniques are what people use until the real facilitator emerges. Whether seeking personal transformation or system transformation, it comes down to values, relationships and our capacity to be authentic and fully intentionai with peopie.

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For more information please contact: Stephen Pocklington

Director/Lead Facilitator Well Beyond Recovery, Inc

Office: 252-638-7080 Cell: 252-675-9008 spocklin gton @su ddenlin k.n el