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Us Usin ing Soci g Social al Medi Media Wi a Wisel sely Recognizing pitfalls and the motivations behind them Chelsea Schmidt Youth minister at Ascension Wh Who am o am I t I to t o tel ell l yo you u wh what at to to do do?

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Us Usin ing Soci g Social al Medi Media Wi a Wisel sely

Recognizing pitfalls and the motivations behind them

Chelsea Schmidt Youth minister at Ascension

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Wh Who am

  • am I t

I to t

  • tel

ell l yo you u wh what at to to do do?

NO, for real, what authority do I have?

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“Isn’t it funny how social me medi dia a ma make kes s you

  • u les

less s social?”

Joe Passantino,

co-director YM at Ascension

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10 10 R Reaso sons ns WHY HY Y YOU OUR CH R CHILD LD MI MIGH GHT FIN FIND D HI HIMS MSELF LF IN A N A DANGE NGEROUS OUS PL PLACE CE WITH TH SOC OCIAL AL ME MEDIA IA

LITERALLY COMPILED FROM AN INTERViEW WITH THREE CURRENT HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS WHO ARE ACTIVE ON THE INTERNET

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10

  • 10. Pe

Peer pr r pressu sure

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10

  • 10. Pe

Peer pr r pressu sure Sol

  • lut

ution ion: : GO GOOD OD com commu muni nicat catio ion n and nd a he healt lthy hy env nvironm

  • nment

ent to

  • be

be ope

  • pen an

n and ho hone nest t at hom home.

Wi Without

  • ut a

a wwwIII wwwIII bl blow

  • wou
  • ut wh

when en hon

  • nesty

esty is is ex expressed essed

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9.

  • 9. Cu

Curio riosity sity

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  • 9. Cu

. Curio riosity sity As Ask k yo your ur ch chil ild d to to t tea each ch yo you u ho how to to us use so e socia cial l me medi dia

As Ask qu ques estions ions wh when en you

  • u see

ee som

  • met

ething ing fi fishy

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  • 8. Atten

ention tion

“I just want you to notice me!”

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  • 9. at

. attent ention ion Aff ffirm irmati ation

  • n!

Aff ffirm irmati ation

  • n!

Aff ffirm irmati ation

  • n!

Fi Find som

  • met

ething ing they ey do we

  • well,

l, an and tel ell them em you

  • u not
  • tic

ice

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  • 7. “We are in love with love.”
  • Ca

Cath therine, erine, HS Seni nior

  • r
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  • 7. “We are in love with love.”

Lo Love ve: To : To wi will th ll the goo good of t

  • f the

he

  • t
  • the

her. r.

Help them to fight against society’s def. of love

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6.

  • 6. Lo

Low se self lf-est esteem eem

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6.

  • 6. Low

Low se self lf-est esteem eem Sexting ting of

  • ften

en oc

  • ccu

curs s be beca caus use e

  • f
  • f lo

low se self lf-im imag age e issues ues

Rem emin ind them em dai aily how

  • w GOO

OOD they ey ar are! e!

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  • 5. Ign

. Ignor

  • ranc

ance

p.s. . this is is is a me a meme me

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  • 5. ign

. ignor

  • rance

ance As Ask k qu ques estio tions ns to to he help lp th them em co come me to to he heal althy thy co conc nclusi lusions.

  • ns.

Don’t tell them…show them.

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  • 4. They don’t value true

sexuali uality ty

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  • 4. They don’t value true

sexuali uality ty Te Teach ch th them em the the tr trut uth. h.

Domestic Church…AND other mentors helps make this possible!!

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  • 3. Th

They are ma mad at at yo you

Found this example online…this is the sort of thing they might do just to get a reaction.

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  • 3. The

They are ma mad at at you you. Mo Model he l healt lthy hy ways s to d

  • deal

l with h ang nger & f r & fru rustr trati ation

  • n

They are watching you…and the way you respond to situations tha hat you do do no not li like ke

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2.

  • 2. Pow

Power

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  • 2. pow

power Gi Give ve the hem co m cont ntrol

  • l ov
  • ver

r he healt lthy hy thi hing ngs s at hom home

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  • 1. (C

. (Cho hoose

  • se you
  • ur ow

r own. n..) .)

My list is not exhaustive…and you as the pa parent nts could ld pr probably ably come me up w p with th a to a ton mo n more ide deas as of wh what at mo moti tivat ates es your chi hild d or your child’s friend to abuse social media...

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So Some me r ran ando dom ad m advice vice

1.

  • 1. Be

Be FB FB fr frie iends nds wit ith h yo your ur ch chil ild

Th This is from m th the hi high h scho hoole

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ho were int ntervie viewed wed for th this pr present ntati ation

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2.

  • 2. Ha

Have ve pa password words s and nd log

  • g-in

in inf nfo

  • for

for all soc

  • cial

ial me media ia sit ites es you your ch r chil ild us uses es

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3.

  • 3. You

You ar are th the pa parent, nt, an and t d this is me mean ans yo you get u get th the fi fina nal say l say.

  • 4. Ne

Neve ver ce r cease se pr prayin ying! g!!!

  • 5. Saf

. Safe Sear arch ch on

  • n Goo

Google gle helps lps to to av avoi

  • id

d ba bad t d things ings po popp pping ing up up

  • 6. Most social media sites have “privacy settings”

where “friends” or “followers” have to be accept epted d befor

  • re

e th they can an v view w your r stu tuff

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  • 7. “Tum

umblr lr Savior” highly recomm

  • mmen

ended ded

8.

  • 8. Sna

napc pchat hat caut ution ion

  • 9. Us

Use C e Caut ution wit ion with Pi Pint nter eres est, , but ut students are saying it’s relatively safe

10 10. . Kno now how

  • w to r
  • repor

port

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Go Good

  • d luc

luck! k!

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Qu Questio tions? ns??? ??