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RANIA EL-SIOUFI AGENDA Communication & Leadership How Communication Works Internal School Relationships External School Relationships Communication strategies for Challenging Situations Successful Principal-Board


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RANIA EL-SIOUFI

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AGENDA

  • Communication & Leadership
  • How Communication Works
  • Internal School Relationships
  • External School Relationships
  • Communication strategies for Challenging Situations
  • Successful Principal-Board Communication
  • The Stress of Communication
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General Objective of the Presentation

At the end of the session participants:  Will have an heightened awareness of the important role effective communication plays in the success of a school  Utilize at least three strategies to improve the communication at their school  Develop a communication matrix  Display greater tolerance and patience when communicating

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COMMUNICATION AND LEADERSHIP

Managing communications effectively is a key leadership skill, and thus taking time to review your communications strategy and performance will be time well spent. Many problems in and out of school can be directly traced to: whether information was communicated how it was communicated who communicated it.

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THE PRINCIPAL’S ROLE

Communication is a management function, not a set of techniques

  • Being a role model and championing for good communication
  • Words from leaders matching actions
  • Commitment to two-way communication
  • Face-to-face communication
  • Bad news being communicated as effectively as good news
  • Be forthright but tactful
  • Diversify communication
  • 1. Your body language, moods and actions = powerful messages

2.Confidence is essential 3.Failure to complete or carry out a routine task suggests the routine is not important and will undermine your credibility. 4.Remaining approachable while being regarded as a professional leader 5.Remember you are now a public figure

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SCHOOL COMMUNICATION WEB

SCHOOL BOARD

PRINCIPAL STUDENT TEACHER COMMUNITY

MOE & ACCREDITATION

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BRAINSTORM!

Consider: At the end of the day list everyone you communicated with during the day, for no matter how short a time. Your results may be surprising.

Communications Overview

Audience Media

M e e t i n g E m a i l N e w s l e t t e r R e p
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t A s s e m b l y T
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n H a l l S u r v e y T a s k F
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c e S
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i a l M e d i a T r e l l
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m Students Schedule Responsible Cost Leadership Team Schedule Responsible Cost Teachers Schedule Responsible Cost Parents Schedule Responsible Cost Office staff Schedule Responsible Cost Caretaker/Security Schedule Responsible Cost Board Members Schedule Responsible Cost
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 What is Communication  The Communication Process”

  • Messenger
  • Message
  • Medium
  • Feedback
  • Non-Verbal

Communication

  • Situation
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COMMUNICATION

 The process of successfully transferring information from one entity to another  Exchange of thoughts, messages or information by speech, signals, writing or behavior  The art and technique of using verbal or non verbal strategies effectively to impart information or ideas.

 What is Communication  The Communication Process

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COMMUNICATION IN SCHOOLS

School Leaders should:

  • never leave the business of communication to

chance

  • constantly seek new ways to raise their

communication awareness

  • develop their skills to become models for effective

communication

  • learn effective listening and responding techniques

 What is Communication  The Communication Process

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10 COMMANDMENTS OF COMMUNICATION

  • 1. “Speak” to people.

There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.

  • 2. Smile at people.

It takes 72 muscles to frown; 14 to smile.

  • 3. Call people by name.

The sweetest music is the sound of one’s own name.

  • 4. Be friendly and helpful.
  • 5. Be cordial.
  • 6. Be genuinely interested in people.

You can like everybody if you try.

  • 7. Be generous with praise and

cautious with criticism.

  • 8. Be considerate of the feelings of
  • thers.

It will be appreciated.

  • 9. Be thoughtful of the opinion of
  • thers.
  • 10. Be alert to give service.

What counts most in life is what we do for others.  What is Communication  The Communication Process

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COMMUNICATION AND ATTITUDE

One can change the direction

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communication if one changes one’s attitude. There is no one attitude that is the 'right' one to have, though being direct and clear certainly helps.

Rights come with responsibility.

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ELEMENTS OF THE COMMUNICATION PROCESS

SENDER / MESSENGER / SPEAKER MESSAGE / IDEA / SPEECH CHANNEL / MEDIUM RECEIVER / AUDIENCE FEEDBACK SITUATION

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PROFILE OF THE EFFECTIVE MESSENGER

 ARTICULATE  KNOWLEDGEABLE  CONFIDENT  FLEXIBLE  CREATIVE  AWARE/ADAPTABLE  PROTOCOL-SENSITIVE

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PROFILE OF THE MESSAGE

APPROPRIATELY TITLED OR INTRODUCED BETTER IF CONCISE AND PRECISE MUST BE APPROPRIATE FOR TARGET (Register and Tone) MUST START AND END ON A POSITIVE NOTE (Sandwich Technique)

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MEDIUM

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Stakeholder Engagement Examples

Partnership Participation Consultation Push Communication Pull Communication

BRAINSTORM!

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HIERARCHY OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION MEDIA

One-to-one/face-to-face Small group meetings Speaking before a large group Phone conversations Handwritten personal notes Typewritten personal notes Computer-generated personal letters Mass-produced non-personal letters Brochures Articles in newsletters News in press

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TECHNOLOGY AS A MEDIUM

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PROFILE OF THE LISTENER/RECEIVER

  • LISTENING ≠ HEARING
  • READING ≠ UNDERSTANDING
  • SENDER MUST SOMETIMES BECOME

LISTENER / RECEIVER

  • READ WITH AN OPEN MIND: Forget

Preconceptions

  • THE BAGGAGE AT THE DOOR!
  • LISTENING CAREFULLY / READING

OBJECTIVELY IS A SIGN OF RESPECT

  • CHECK LISTEN
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Listen

Non-verbal Signals

  • Smile
  • Eye Contact
  • Posture
  • Avoiding Distraction

Check

  • Paraphrase or

Summarize to check for understanding

  • Your point is…
  • Your concern is…
  • You're asking…

ACTIVE LISTENING

Respond

  • Be candid, open, and

honest in your response.

  • Assert your opinions

respectfully.

  • Treat the other person in a

way that you think he or she would want to be treated.

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Discretion in Communication

Schools require employees to use discretion Written communications such as email are particularly vulnerable to improper and unauthorized distribution, because they are so easy to forward to others.

Judgment in Communication

The school also expects them to be able to take the decision that they feel is the right one, which is called acting according to their discretion.

DISCRETION

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NON-VERBAL FEEDBACK

NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION LANGUAGE SPEECH SILENCE GESTURES EXPRESSION FACIAL MOVEMENT BODY

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 Teacher-Student  Teacher-Teacher  Staff-Administration

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IN-SCHOOL COMMUNICATION: WITH WHO & WHY

Communication Protocols Student level Teacher level  Department level  Admin level  School level

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EFFECTIVE HIERARCHY

  • Paper
  • Practice
  • Being informed vs. micromanaging
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ADJUSTING THE TEMPERATURE

Setting Expectations

  • Using your Cs – Compassion, Consistency, Communication, Creativity,

Collaboration

  • Being an example
  • Teaching moments

Adopt a listening approach for:

  • ‘sounds’ of learning at your school such as evidence of curiosity, inquiry,

earnest endeavour, shared thinking and collaboration and teacher facilitation

  • ‘sounds’ of teachers’ shared approach to teaching such as team teaching,

collaborative planning, questioning and supporting Adopt an analytical ear for the ‘sounds’:

  • you want to hear but are absent
  • you hear but would prefer not to hear.

Add all these sounds to your knowledge bank about the school and use them at appropriate times to make progress on development.

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TEACHER STUDENT

  • Vertical communication (subordinates and superiors)
  • Boundaries must be CLEARLY defined
  • Chain of command must be respected
  • Must leave room for dialogue and/or negotiation if necessary
  • Teachers do not have to use “big sticks”
  • Relationships are not defined by behavior or performance
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EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION WITH CHILDREN LISTEN actively (the most basic of all the skills) Address the Child Holistically Be Strengths-Based

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TEACHER TEACHER

  • Horizontal communication (peer to peer)
  • Rules of protocol may be relaxed
  • Respect for the individual must always be displayed
  • Understand that roles are intertwined (others depend
  • n you for their work to be done effectively)
  • Make sure that message is clearly articulated
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PROFESSIONAL LEARNING COMMUNITIES

  • A climate of support and respect
  • A cycle of feedback
  • Identification & commitment to common

learning standards

  • Common lessons and assessments
  • Capacity of staff & increased teacher efficacy
  • Caring and positive relationships among staff

and students

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STAFF ADMINISTRATION

¤ Vertical communication (subordinates and superiors) ¤ Requires rules of protocol to be observed ¤ Chain of command must be respected ¤ Delegation, duty and execution are critical ¤ Must leave room for dialogue and/or negotiation if necessary ¤ Difference between leaders and dictators

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 Community  Board-Staff  Parent-School

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EVALUATE METHODS OF COMMUNICATING A SCHOOL’S ETHOS, MISSION, AIMS AND VALUES

Anyone visiting the school should be able to observe the practice of the ethos and values. Make the community aware of the mission and values through:

  • School’s Prospectus
  • Meetings, e.g. for new parents, open houses
  • School Website
  • Assemblies

 Community  Board-Staff  Parent-School

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CONNECTING WITH YOUR COMMUNITY

Begin with the end in mind.

Remember that principals strengthen partnerships and networks to enhance student learning. Extend your knowledge so you become an expert on your school community. Share so education becomes everyone’s business. Have a broad and simple community communication goal appropriate to your school’s setting.

 Community  Board-Staff  Parent-School

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STRATEGIES FOR COMMUNITY COMMUNICATION

  • 1. Plan for improved communication
  • 2. Set goals based on strengths and limitations
  • 3. Establish priorities
  • 4. Target your audience and message
  • 5. Reach out to diverse community groups
  • 6. Find information sources
  • 7. Find community leaders
  • 8. Network
  • 9. Evaluate the effectiveness of your communication

 Community  Board-Staff  Parent-School

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BOARD STAFF

╚Vertical communication (subordinates and superiors) ╚Requires rules of protocol to be observed ╚Less effective if entirely “top-down” ╚Teambuilding & Appreciation

 Community  Board-Staff  Parent-School

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PARENT SCHOOL

Effective family, community, and school collaboration and communication requires schools to take responsibility for communication. This must include:

  • Listening to the public & creating dialogue
  • Ensuring two-way regular, clear communication

Building partnerships to promote the well-being of students Providing multiple means for communicating with stakeholders, e.g., newsletters, electronic communication, town halls

 Community  Board-Staff  Parent-School

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PARENT SCHOOL ☺ Send for parents when students do well ☺ PTSO ☺ Hold parent recognition functions ☺ Share success stories ☺ Be Consistent ☺ Have goal and non-goal functions

 Community  Board-Staff  Parent-School

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CHANGE ONE LETTER IN EACH WORD TO MAKE A STATEMENT ABOUT THE PRESENTATION.

To fat no goad

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COMMUNICATION IS NATURAL!

“If God did not intend for us to communicate with others, we would have been made without ears, eyes or tongues. Our fingers would be unable to feel anything.”

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 6 Tips  Setting your Agenda  How to Avoid Crisis Communication

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6 TIPS TO EFFECTIVELY COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR BOARD OF DIRECTORS

 Don’t kill them with data.  Effectively communicate issues facing the school.  Provide high-level updates on school initiatives.  Be solution-oriented.  Hold one-on-one discussions.  Use outside subject matter experts  6 Tips  Setting your Agenda  How to Avoid Crisis Communication

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ELEMENTS OF THE AGENDA

Agenda

Reports Requests Issues Planning

 6 Tips  Setting your Agenda  How to Avoid Crisis Communication

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HOW TO AVOID CRISES DRIVING YOUR COMMUNICATION

  • Building a Strong Hierarchy
  • Setting & Maintaining Communication Protocol
  • Staying Informed
  • Consistency
  • Reporting
  • Building Trust
  • Working as a Team

 6 Tips  Setting your Agenda  How to Avoid Crisis Communication

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 Spirit of the Conversation  Communication Barriers  Causes of Challenges  Difficult Conversations  How to De-escalate

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THE SPIRIT OF THE CONVERSATION

Interrogation Interview Conversation

 Spirit of the Conversation  Communication Barriers  Causes of Challenges  Difficult Conversations  How to De-escalate

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BARRIERS TO COMMUNICATION

  • Making Assumptions
  • Patterns/Reverting to Type
  • Needing to Be Right
  • Mental/Physical attitude
  • Health and physical factors
  • Technical interruptions
  • Environmental factors
  • Human error

 Spirit of the Conversation  Communication Barriers  Causes of Challenges  Difficult Conversations  How to De-escalate

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 Spirit of the Conversation  Communication Barriers  Causes of Challenges  Difficult Conversations  How to De-escalate

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THE DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS

  • Delivering tough news
  • Enforcing policy
  • Developmental feedback
  • Conflicts and disagreements
  • Challenging others on their

decisions

  • Discussing compensation
  • Handling complaints
  • Requesting help
  • Negotiating

 Spirit of the Conversation  Communication Barriers  Causes of Challenges  Difficult Conversations  How to De-escalate

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DIFFICULT CONVERSATION CONTENT HOW TO PLAN FOR IT

Pre-Planning: Reactions

  • How do you have to self

manage?

  • What reactions do you think

you'll receive from the other person? Define Goals Brainstorm Solution

  • 1. Open Discussion
  • Purpose for discussion
  • Goals for discussion
  • 2. Present Critical Issue & Rationale
  • Issue to be addressed
  • Rationale and reason behind issue
  • 3. Ask for Reaction and Their Ideas
  • 4. Present Potential Solutions
  • 5. Close

 Spirit of the Conversation  Communication Barriers  Causes of Challenges  Difficult Conversations  How to De-escalate

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FIVE WAYS TO DE-ESCALATE A CONFLICT

  • 1. Listen
  • 2. Acknowledge and accept

their emotions/feelings

  • 3. Apologize for your

contribution

  • 4. Control your tone and body

language

  • 5. Focus on the future

DE-ESCALATE

 Spirit of the Conversation  Communication Barriers  Causes of Challenges  Difficult Conversations  How to De-escalate3

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DE-ESCALATION PROCESS

 Spirit of the Conversation  Communication Barriers  Causes of Challenges  Difficult Conversations  How to De-escalate2

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OPENING – STARTING PHRASES

“I’d like to talk to you about ____. I think we may have different ideas

  • n how to _____.”

“I have something to discuss with you that I think will help us work together (even) more effectively.” “I need your help with something. Can we talk about it?” “I’d like to see if we might reach a better understanding about ____. I really want to hear your thoughts/feelings about this and share my perspectives as well.” “I think we have different perspectives about ____. I’d like to hear your thinking on this and move closer on our points of view.”

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CHALLENGING SITUATIONS

 Aggressive parents  Non-adherence to policy  Human resource concerns

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ACTIVITY:

Purpose Familiarize yourself with a process for preparing for crucial conversations Timing 3 minutes Step 1 Think of the crucial conversation you prepared as prework. Make notes on the worksheet provided about major points that will help you in preparing for this conversation. Step 2 Discuss your thoughts with a partner and receive feedback from their perspective.

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 Stress Styles  Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them  What to Watch For

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STYLES UNDER STRESS

Driver

Commands / Takes Over

Analytical

Avoids / Withdraws

Amiable

Acquiesces / Goes Along

  • Logically discuss the issue
  • Acknowledge a need for time
  • Set a deadline
  • Restate their concerns
  • Offer options for moving forward
  • Recommit to results and time frame

Controlled Emotive Tell Ask

  • Ask open questions about concerns
  • Allow them to express disagreement
  • Acknowledge feelings and points
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  • Separate emotions from facts

Expressive

Attacks / Confronts

 Stress Styles  Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them  What to Watch For

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TYPICAL STRESS REACTIONS

Surprise

  • Confusion
  • Disappointment
  • Questioning

Anger/Hurt

  • Strong disagreement
  • Denial

Rationalization

  • Justification
  • Excuses

Apathy

  • Resignation
  • Silence
  • Lack of caring

Acceptance

  • Acknowledging
  • Showing a willingness to improve

 Stress Styles  Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them2  What to Watch For

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HANDLING STRESS REACTIONS Speak: send your message Ask: for reactions

Listen: REFLECT, REFLECT, REFLECT reactions Response Options:

  • Clarify/elaborate
  • Ask questions
  • Restate points of view
  • Get agreement going forward
  • Think about it/stop discussion

 Stress Styles  Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them1  What to Watch For

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WATCH FOR…

  • Your tone of voice
  • Loaded words
  • Falling on one end of the

assertiveness spectrum or the

  • ther
  • Passive
  • Aggressive (direct or

indirect)

  • Defensive reaction by the
  • ther person

 Stress Styles  Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them  What to Watch For

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