RANIA EL-SIOUFI AGENDA Communication & Leadership How - - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
RANIA EL-SIOUFI AGENDA Communication & Leadership How - - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
RANIA EL-SIOUFI AGENDA Communication & Leadership How Communication Works Internal School Relationships External School Relationships Communication strategies for Challenging Situations Successful Principal-Board
AGENDA
- Communication & Leadership
- How Communication Works
- Internal School Relationships
- External School Relationships
- Communication strategies for Challenging Situations
- Successful Principal-Board Communication
- The Stress of Communication
General Objective of the Presentation
At the end of the session participants: Will have an heightened awareness of the important role effective communication plays in the success of a school Utilize at least three strategies to improve the communication at their school Develop a communication matrix Display greater tolerance and patience when communicating
COMMUNICATION AND LEADERSHIP
Managing communications effectively is a key leadership skill, and thus taking time to review your communications strategy and performance will be time well spent. Many problems in and out of school can be directly traced to: whether information was communicated how it was communicated who communicated it.
THE PRINCIPAL’S ROLE
Communication is a management function, not a set of techniques
- Being a role model and championing for good communication
- Words from leaders matching actions
- Commitment to two-way communication
- Face-to-face communication
- Bad news being communicated as effectively as good news
- Be forthright but tactful
- Diversify communication
- 1. Your body language, moods and actions = powerful messages
2.Confidence is essential 3.Failure to complete or carry out a routine task suggests the routine is not important and will undermine your credibility. 4.Remaining approachable while being regarded as a professional leader 5.Remember you are now a public figure
SCHOOL COMMUNICATION WEB
SCHOOL BOARD
PRINCIPAL STUDENT TEACHER COMMUNITY
MOE & ACCREDITATION
BRAINSTORM!
Consider: At the end of the day list everyone you communicated with during the day, for no matter how short a time. Your results may be surprising.
Communications Overview
Audience Media
M e e t i n g E m a i l N e w s l e t t e r R e p- r
- w
- r
- c
- F
- r
What is Communication The Communication Process”
- Messenger
- Message
- Medium
- Feedback
- Non-Verbal
Communication
- Situation
COMMUNICATION
The process of successfully transferring information from one entity to another Exchange of thoughts, messages or information by speech, signals, writing or behavior The art and technique of using verbal or non verbal strategies effectively to impart information or ideas.
What is Communication The Communication Process
COMMUNICATION IN SCHOOLS
School Leaders should:
- never leave the business of communication to
chance
- constantly seek new ways to raise their
communication awareness
- develop their skills to become models for effective
communication
- learn effective listening and responding techniques
What is Communication The Communication Process
10 COMMANDMENTS OF COMMUNICATION
- 1. “Speak” to people.
There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.
- 2. Smile at people.
It takes 72 muscles to frown; 14 to smile.
- 3. Call people by name.
The sweetest music is the sound of one’s own name.
- 4. Be friendly and helpful.
- 5. Be cordial.
- 6. Be genuinely interested in people.
You can like everybody if you try.
- 7. Be generous with praise and
cautious with criticism.
- 8. Be considerate of the feelings of
- thers.
It will be appreciated.
- 9. Be thoughtful of the opinion of
- thers.
- 10. Be alert to give service.
What counts most in life is what we do for others. What is Communication The Communication Process
COMMUNICATION AND ATTITUDE
One can change the direction
- f
communication if one changes one’s attitude. There is no one attitude that is the 'right' one to have, though being direct and clear certainly helps.
Rights come with responsibility.
ELEMENTS OF THE COMMUNICATION PROCESS
SENDER / MESSENGER / SPEAKER MESSAGE / IDEA / SPEECH CHANNEL / MEDIUM RECEIVER / AUDIENCE FEEDBACK SITUATION
PROFILE OF THE EFFECTIVE MESSENGER
ARTICULATE KNOWLEDGEABLE CONFIDENT FLEXIBLE CREATIVE AWARE/ADAPTABLE PROTOCOL-SENSITIVE
PROFILE OF THE MESSAGE
APPROPRIATELY TITLED OR INTRODUCED BETTER IF CONCISE AND PRECISE MUST BE APPROPRIATE FOR TARGET (Register and Tone) MUST START AND END ON A POSITIVE NOTE (Sandwich Technique)
MEDIUM
Stakeholder Engagement Examples
Partnership Participation Consultation Push Communication Pull Communication
BRAINSTORM!
HIERARCHY OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION MEDIA
One-to-one/face-to-face Small group meetings Speaking before a large group Phone conversations Handwritten personal notes Typewritten personal notes Computer-generated personal letters Mass-produced non-personal letters Brochures Articles in newsletters News in press
TECHNOLOGY AS A MEDIUM
PROFILE OF THE LISTENER/RECEIVER
- LISTENING ≠ HEARING
- READING ≠ UNDERSTANDING
- SENDER MUST SOMETIMES BECOME
LISTENER / RECEIVER
- READ WITH AN OPEN MIND: Forget
Preconceptions
- THE BAGGAGE AT THE DOOR!
- LISTENING CAREFULLY / READING
OBJECTIVELY IS A SIGN OF RESPECT
- CHECK LISTEN
Listen
Non-verbal Signals
- Smile
- Eye Contact
- Posture
- Avoiding Distraction
Check
- Paraphrase or
Summarize to check for understanding
- Your point is…
- Your concern is…
- You're asking…
ACTIVE LISTENING
Respond
- Be candid, open, and
honest in your response.
- Assert your opinions
respectfully.
- Treat the other person in a
way that you think he or she would want to be treated.
Discretion in Communication
Schools require employees to use discretion Written communications such as email are particularly vulnerable to improper and unauthorized distribution, because they are so easy to forward to others.
Judgment in Communication
The school also expects them to be able to take the decision that they feel is the right one, which is called acting according to their discretion.
DISCRETION
NON-VERBAL FEEDBACK
NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION LANGUAGE SPEECH SILENCE GESTURES EXPRESSION FACIAL MOVEMENT BODY
Teacher-Student Teacher-Teacher Staff-Administration
IN-SCHOOL COMMUNICATION: WITH WHO & WHY
Communication Protocols Student level Teacher level Department level Admin level School level
EFFECTIVE HIERARCHY
- Paper
- Practice
- Being informed vs. micromanaging
ADJUSTING THE TEMPERATURE
Setting Expectations
- Using your Cs – Compassion, Consistency, Communication, Creativity,
Collaboration
- Being an example
- Teaching moments
Adopt a listening approach for:
- ‘sounds’ of learning at your school such as evidence of curiosity, inquiry,
earnest endeavour, shared thinking and collaboration and teacher facilitation
- ‘sounds’ of teachers’ shared approach to teaching such as team teaching,
collaborative planning, questioning and supporting Adopt an analytical ear for the ‘sounds’:
- you want to hear but are absent
- you hear but would prefer not to hear.
Add all these sounds to your knowledge bank about the school and use them at appropriate times to make progress on development.
TEACHER STUDENT
- Vertical communication (subordinates and superiors)
- Boundaries must be CLEARLY defined
- Chain of command must be respected
- Must leave room for dialogue and/or negotiation if necessary
- Teachers do not have to use “big sticks”
- Relationships are not defined by behavior or performance
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION WITH CHILDREN LISTEN actively (the most basic of all the skills) Address the Child Holistically Be Strengths-Based
TEACHER TEACHER
- Horizontal communication (peer to peer)
- Rules of protocol may be relaxed
- Respect for the individual must always be displayed
- Understand that roles are intertwined (others depend
- n you for their work to be done effectively)
- Make sure that message is clearly articulated
PROFESSIONAL LEARNING COMMUNITIES
- A climate of support and respect
- A cycle of feedback
- Identification & commitment to common
learning standards
- Common lessons and assessments
- Capacity of staff & increased teacher efficacy
- Caring and positive relationships among staff
and students
STAFF ADMINISTRATION
¤ Vertical communication (subordinates and superiors) ¤ Requires rules of protocol to be observed ¤ Chain of command must be respected ¤ Delegation, duty and execution are critical ¤ Must leave room for dialogue and/or negotiation if necessary ¤ Difference between leaders and dictators
Community Board-Staff Parent-School
EVALUATE METHODS OF COMMUNICATING A SCHOOL’S ETHOS, MISSION, AIMS AND VALUES
Anyone visiting the school should be able to observe the practice of the ethos and values. Make the community aware of the mission and values through:
- School’s Prospectus
- Meetings, e.g. for new parents, open houses
- School Website
- Assemblies
Community Board-Staff Parent-School
CONNECTING WITH YOUR COMMUNITY
Begin with the end in mind.
Remember that principals strengthen partnerships and networks to enhance student learning. Extend your knowledge so you become an expert on your school community. Share so education becomes everyone’s business. Have a broad and simple community communication goal appropriate to your school’s setting.
Community Board-Staff Parent-School
STRATEGIES FOR COMMUNITY COMMUNICATION
- 1. Plan for improved communication
- 2. Set goals based on strengths and limitations
- 3. Establish priorities
- 4. Target your audience and message
- 5. Reach out to diverse community groups
- 6. Find information sources
- 7. Find community leaders
- 8. Network
- 9. Evaluate the effectiveness of your communication
Community Board-Staff Parent-School
BOARD STAFF
╚Vertical communication (subordinates and superiors) ╚Requires rules of protocol to be observed ╚Less effective if entirely “top-down” ╚Teambuilding & Appreciation
Community Board-Staff Parent-School
PARENT SCHOOL
Effective family, community, and school collaboration and communication requires schools to take responsibility for communication. This must include:
- Listening to the public & creating dialogue
- Ensuring two-way regular, clear communication
Building partnerships to promote the well-being of students Providing multiple means for communicating with stakeholders, e.g., newsletters, electronic communication, town halls
Community Board-Staff Parent-School
PARENT SCHOOL ☺ Send for parents when students do well ☺ PTSO ☺ Hold parent recognition functions ☺ Share success stories ☺ Be Consistent ☺ Have goal and non-goal functions
Community Board-Staff Parent-School
CHANGE ONE LETTER IN EACH WORD TO MAKE A STATEMENT ABOUT THE PRESENTATION.
To fat no goad
COMMUNICATION IS NATURAL!
“If God did not intend for us to communicate with others, we would have been made without ears, eyes or tongues. Our fingers would be unable to feel anything.”
6 Tips Setting your Agenda How to Avoid Crisis Communication
6 TIPS TO EFFECTIVELY COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR BOARD OF DIRECTORS
Don’t kill them with data. Effectively communicate issues facing the school. Provide high-level updates on school initiatives. Be solution-oriented. Hold one-on-one discussions. Use outside subject matter experts 6 Tips Setting your Agenda How to Avoid Crisis Communication
ELEMENTS OF THE AGENDA
Agenda
Reports Requests Issues Planning
6 Tips Setting your Agenda How to Avoid Crisis Communication
HOW TO AVOID CRISES DRIVING YOUR COMMUNICATION
- Building a Strong Hierarchy
- Setting & Maintaining Communication Protocol
- Staying Informed
- Consistency
- Reporting
- Building Trust
- Working as a Team
6 Tips Setting your Agenda How to Avoid Crisis Communication
Spirit of the Conversation Communication Barriers Causes of Challenges Difficult Conversations How to De-escalate
THE SPIRIT OF THE CONVERSATION
Interrogation Interview Conversation
Spirit of the Conversation Communication Barriers Causes of Challenges Difficult Conversations How to De-escalate
BARRIERS TO COMMUNICATION
- Making Assumptions
- Patterns/Reverting to Type
- Needing to Be Right
- Mental/Physical attitude
- Health and physical factors
- Technical interruptions
- Environmental factors
- Human error
Spirit of the Conversation Communication Barriers Causes of Challenges Difficult Conversations How to De-escalate
Spirit of the Conversation Communication Barriers Causes of Challenges Difficult Conversations How to De-escalate
THE DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS
- Delivering tough news
- Enforcing policy
- Developmental feedback
- Conflicts and disagreements
- Challenging others on their
decisions
- Discussing compensation
- Handling complaints
- Requesting help
- Negotiating
Spirit of the Conversation Communication Barriers Causes of Challenges Difficult Conversations How to De-escalate
DIFFICULT CONVERSATION CONTENT HOW TO PLAN FOR IT
Pre-Planning: Reactions
- How do you have to self
manage?
- What reactions do you think
you'll receive from the other person? Define Goals Brainstorm Solution
- 1. Open Discussion
- Purpose for discussion
- Goals for discussion
- 2. Present Critical Issue & Rationale
- Issue to be addressed
- Rationale and reason behind issue
- 3. Ask for Reaction and Their Ideas
- 4. Present Potential Solutions
- 5. Close
Spirit of the Conversation Communication Barriers Causes of Challenges Difficult Conversations How to De-escalate
FIVE WAYS TO DE-ESCALATE A CONFLICT
- 1. Listen
- 2. Acknowledge and accept
their emotions/feelings
- 3. Apologize for your
contribution
- 4. Control your tone and body
language
- 5. Focus on the future
DE-ESCALATE
Spirit of the Conversation Communication Barriers Causes of Challenges Difficult Conversations How to De-escalate3
DE-ESCALATION PROCESS
Spirit of the Conversation Communication Barriers Causes of Challenges Difficult Conversations How to De-escalate2
OPENING – STARTING PHRASES
“I’d like to talk to you about ____. I think we may have different ideas
- n how to _____.”
“I have something to discuss with you that I think will help us work together (even) more effectively.” “I need your help with something. Can we talk about it?” “I’d like to see if we might reach a better understanding about ____. I really want to hear your thoughts/feelings about this and share my perspectives as well.” “I think we have different perspectives about ____. I’d like to hear your thinking on this and move closer on our points of view.”
CHALLENGING SITUATIONS
Aggressive parents Non-adherence to policy Human resource concerns
ACTIVITY:
Purpose Familiarize yourself with a process for preparing for crucial conversations Timing 3 minutes Step 1 Think of the crucial conversation you prepared as prework. Make notes on the worksheet provided about major points that will help you in preparing for this conversation. Step 2 Discuss your thoughts with a partner and receive feedback from their perspective.
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Stress Styles Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them What to Watch For
STYLES UNDER STRESS
Driver
Commands / Takes Over
Analytical
Avoids / Withdraws
Amiable
Acquiesces / Goes Along
- Logically discuss the issue
- Acknowledge a need for time
- Set a deadline
- Restate their concerns
- Offer options for moving forward
- Recommit to results and time frame
Controlled Emotive Tell Ask
- Ask open questions about concerns
- Allow them to express disagreement
- Acknowledge feelings and points
- f view
- Separate emotions from facts
Expressive
Attacks / Confronts
Stress Styles Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them What to Watch For
TYPICAL STRESS REACTIONS
Surprise
- Confusion
- Disappointment
- Questioning
Anger/Hurt
- Strong disagreement
- Denial
Rationalization
- Justification
- Excuses
Apathy
- Resignation
- Silence
- Lack of caring
Acceptance
- Acknowledging
- Showing a willingness to improve
Stress Styles Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them2 What to Watch For
HANDLING STRESS REACTIONS Speak: send your message Ask: for reactions
Listen: REFLECT, REFLECT, REFLECT reactions Response Options:
- Clarify/elaborate
- Ask questions
- Restate points of view
- Get agreement going forward
- Think about it/stop discussion
Stress Styles Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them1 What to Watch For
WATCH FOR…
- Your tone of voice
- Loaded words
- Falling on one end of the
assertiveness spectrum or the
- ther
- Passive
- Aggressive (direct or
indirect)
- Defensive reaction by the
- ther person
Stress Styles Stress Reactions & How to Handle Them What to Watch For
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