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What is the Abusers Motivation to Change? What is the Abusers Motivation to Change?

Voluntarily he would need to:

he would need to:

• Admit use of Controlling/Abusive Behavior

Admit use of Controlling/Abusive Behavior

• Give up control & admit he was wrong.

Give up control & admit he was wrong.

• Accept all consequences.

Accept all consequences.

• Accept that his partner & children might remain angry and not fo

Accept that his partner & children might remain angry and not forgive him. rgive him.

• Share power equally in the relationship, consistently from now o

Share power equally in the relationship, consistently from now on. n.

• Demonstrate dignity, respect, compassion & understanding to hims

Demonstrate dignity, respect, compassion & understanding to himself, his elf, his partner, his children and others. partner, his children and others.

• Reflect on past thoughts, feelings and behaviors and make a long

Reflect on past thoughts, feelings and behaviors and make a long-

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term commitment to correct past actions and make amends to all he has commitment to correct past actions and make amends to all he has harmed. harmed.

• Commit to understanding and confronting past trauma, shame and a

Commit to understanding and confronting past trauma, shame and address ddress FEELINGS FEELINGS regarding past and current events. regarding past and current events.

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