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Messiness: Fathers experiences of the child protection process. - - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
Messiness: Fathers experiences of the child protection process. - - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
Men, Masculinities and Messiness: Fathers experiences of the child protection process. Dr.Daryl Dugdale 2015 Desirable masculinity is context -dependant: there is tension between women`s different constructions of ideal masculinity across
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Key Questions
- How might men`s understanding of fatherhood influence
their behaviours?
- How might their sense of manliness or masculinity inform
this understanding?
- What changes can be proposed to increase the
likelihood of fathers becoming involved in the social care process?
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Method
- Multiple case study design (4 fathers).
- Triangulation
- Semi structured interviews
- Observations core group meetings and case
conferences
- Focus group interviews
- Use of case files
- Longitudinal
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Data collection
- Four first stage interviews.
- Two fathers dropped out two continued to
conclusion.
- Three observations of core group
meetings and case conferences.
- Two focus group meetings with SW
- practitioners. (All female)
- Case file notes from two fathers.
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Four fathers
- Nigel-36 years old, significant custodial sentence, 6 years, unknown reason, but did
have a history of drug use. 13 year old daughter who lives with ex partner, he has a baby with his new partner.
- Dave-34 years old, history of domestic abuse (acknowledged), violence in the
community alcohol and drug dependency. Two step children 11, & 13 and a birth son 4 years old.
- Donny-36 years old, allegations of domestic abuse (denied) and emotional harm a
consequence of estranged relationship. Three children 14, 11, 6. 14 year old living with him two youngest children living with their mother he has had no contact for over nine months.
- Mike- 62 years old, allegations of domestic abuse (denied) concerns about his
parenting, physical chastisement, also emotional harm as a consequence of relationship with partner breaking down. One birth son 6 years , also cares for his son`s eight year old half bother for whom he has no PR.
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- Provider/ Carer tension.
- Gendered assumption of motherhood.
- Risk and resource.
- Father/social worker interface.
Key Themes
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Provider/carer tension
- Work and additional traditional traits.
- Changing context of modern family and shifting
roles.
- Men`s ability to adapt to a changing context.
- Men`s struggle in combining both carer and
provider elements.
- The relevance of the inter-relationship between
men and women.
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Provider/carer tension
“I`ll talk with Ricky more than the other boys, I`m only their step dad and as much as I`ve been around them for ten years I`ll be honest I`ve played a limited role in their lives as such when it comes to certain issues like nappy changing.” Dave “I used to sit down with Sam and get nits out of his hair. One day I didn`t know what to do so what I did I got a jam jar and filled it half full with a strong disinfectant something I used for cleaning, half and half with water and that mixed it up comb his hair, putting in this stuff, I didn`t know what to do with em.” Mike
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Gendered assumption of motherhood
- Hegemonic responsibility means holding
women to account.
- Men still have resistance to certain
aspects of femininity.
- Provides an insight into discussion of the
roles and benefits from their parenting.
- Lack of coherence and contradiction in
men`s narratives.
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Gendered assumption of motherhood
- “Well er, one of the main things is teaching
him to be a proper human being, because his mother is just useless you know she`s just totally absolutely useless at it. I mean he swears, he comes to my house he swears like a chap off a building site.” Mike
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Gendered assumption of motherhood
“I want to take part in this, you know, cos it`s ..err.. It`s
- different. But, on the flip side, of me being an aggressive
and angry person and stuff and on a domestic abuse programme… ermmmm, there`s nothing for women out there on the violent front. ‘Cos I`m not blaming anything
- n Linda but, where as everything on this , sort of,
category of stuff, Linda gets spoke to about and I don`t
- really. It`s the other way round on the violent side of stuff
you know, it`s all me and yous, ‘cos you`re a male.” Dave
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Risk and resource
- Practitioners and fathers see risk and
resource in different ways.
- Fathers explicit acknowledgement of risk.
- Risk disguised as a resource.
- Reframing risky behaviours with what they
believed to be examples of resource.
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Risk and resource
- “I was surprised actually how easy it was for them to say
alright we think there`s not a risk any more especially when I`m debating in my head am I a child abuser or not.” Dave
- “If you were to go around Balton and go into some
places and say do you know Mike, oh yeah Mike we don`t mess with him I `ve got a reputation and that reputation is nothing about me being violent, it`s always when somebody`s been violent towards me.” Mike
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Mike
- “The next door neighbour, she`s 10, she comes with me and we go places
and I treat her like my own daughter, and I think children should be treated like that. They are children. They`re not mine or yours or someone elses. They`re kids. Kids. And I love them, love them to death. They mean so much.”
- “I said “she`s lovely, she`s only”, you know what I said every time she used
to go to her mother`s house… what`s that, her nana. Then she used to go to come along to me first thing she said, “what we having for dinner, what we got for tea?, I`m hungry.” Every time, and I used to cook all these lovely meals for her, like, you know, owhh, I`m like a bloody pied piper with her kids because they get nothing from her.”
- Sam was using my little finger like that to masturbate like that
(demonstrates). I didn`t say nothing and he went (gives a sigh), like that. Evan Jake said, “ Sam what`s the matter with you ? Why you puffing or something like that?”
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Father social worker interface
- “It`s as if I`ve got no rights. They look at me as though
I`m a piece of dirt, basically. They think I`m scum, they think I was, you know what I mean, basically they denied me my parental rights you know, it`s wrong it`s wrong.” Donny
- I mean if I`ve got to do this every six months to keep
them under child protection I`d rather do that. Because I think they need to be looked at. She said well if we get them off the child protection we`ll still follow up, but I mean they don`t do enough now.” Mike
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Conclusion
- The ever changing social construct of fatherhood acts as
a vehicle to support the transfer of hegemonic masculinity.
- Complex gendered relations are at work informed by
men`s understanding of how to father, their response to mothering which connect themselves to the construct of risk and practitioners response to this.
- Social workers need to address gendered practices to
engage with men`s performance and to investigate masculinities that present themselves in men`s lifestyle choices, both as service users and male practitioners.
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