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PREPARING KIDS FOR REALITY LIFE READY KIDS Youth Ranch - Residential Treatment with school for girls and boys ages 12-18 who are blowing up their lives Family Experience - Weekend get- aways for the whole family to help pull together as a

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LIFE READY KIDS

PREPARING KIDS FOR REALITY

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Youth Ranch - Residential Treatment with school for girls and boys ages 12-18 who are blowing up their lives Family Experience - Weekend get- aways for the whole family to help pull together as a family. Today’s Family Experience - Seminars, podcasts, blogs and resources for parents, communities and churches.

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THINGS THAT MAKE US FEEL SAFE ACTUALLY MAY MAKE OUR KIDS MORE VULNERABLE.

KEY POINT

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39.5%

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GOOD KIDS VS. GREAT ADULTS

THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE

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LAUNCH PROCESS

Age

Birth “Adult”

Parent Child

Responsible Not Responsible

Teach & Discipline Coach & Mentor Motivation Internal External

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Age Birth “Adult”

F a i l e d L a u n c h Parent Child

Responsible Not Responsible

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Age Birth “Adult”

F a i l e d L a u n c h Parent Child

Responsible Not Responsible

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IMBALANCE CAUSES FRUSTRATION

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MOVING FULCRUM CREATES IMPACT

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FAMILY AS A FULCRUM

Thriving Dysfunctional Family

Life

Family

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WHEN FAMILY HURTS

Dysfunctional Lower Impact More Struggle Family

Life

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WHEN FAMILY HELPS

Thriving Higher Impact Less Wasted Energy Family

Life

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FAMILY AS A FULCRUM

Thriving Dysfunctional Family Family

Strength of Parent Relationship

Life

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PERFECTIONISM

FUTURE DESTROYER

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“Perfectionism causes conflicts with your family, it takes up all your free time, it squeezes the enjoyment out of all your activities. To perfectionists, nothing is ever perfect, so they are never fully satisfied”

Strassburger

FUTURE DESTROYERS - PERFECTIONISM

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PEOPLE PLEASING

FUTURE DESTROYER

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BEST - Learn from other person’s mistake

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Listen to Advice from the Wise

Second Best

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Personal Experience

Most Painful

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PROCESS FOR BECOMING LIFE READY

Caught
Taught
Practiced

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WHAT EMPLOYERS WANT

Critical Thinking/Problem Solving
Teamwork
Professionalism/Work Ethic
Oral/Written Communication
Information Technology

Application

Leadership
Career Management

National Association of Colleges and Employers (NACE) 2015 Survey

Critical Thinking/Problem Solving
Teamwork
Professionalism/Work Ethic
Oral/Written Communication
Information Technology

Application

Leadership
Career Management

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MAKING DECISIONS

DECISIVE NOT IMPULSIVE

Narrow Framing
The Confirmation Bias
Short-term emotion
Overconfidence

Decisive: How to Make Better Choices in Life and Work by Chip & Dan Heath

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MAKING DECISIONS

HOW TO MAKE BETTER DECISIONS

Widen Your Options
Reality-test Your Assumptions
Attain Distance Before Deciding
Prepare to be wrong

Photo: Mateusz Stachowski

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HOW TO WIN

WINNING WELL

▸ Keep Perspective ▸ Celebrate, but don’t gloat ▸ Winning brings responsibility ▸ Have “class” ▸ Every sport is a team sport.

John R. Tusis, “There’s such a thin line between winning and losing.”

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WIN FROM LOSING

LOSING WITHOUT BEING A LOSER

Tell stories of real champions
Celebrate growth, not just

achievement

Give them a chance to fail
Don’t be a “Polly Anna” about

failure

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