“I call it the Vegetable Visa:" A Gender Structure Analysis of Family Lives of Dependent Visa Holders
Pallavi Banerjee, PH.D. Postdoctoral Fellow Department of Sociology Vanderbilt University
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1 I call it the Vegetable Visa:" A Gender Structure Analysis of Family Lives of Dependent Visa Holders Pallavi Banerjee, PH.D. Postdoctoral Fellow Department of Sociology Vanderbilt University 2 Context of Indian Migration
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H1B OR SKILLED WORKERS TEMPORARY MIGRATION VISA H4 VISA OR DEPENDENT VISA FOR FAMILY MEMBERS
Visa for professionals in “Specialty Occupation” (SO) with at least a bachelor’s degree. Spouse and children of any of the H (1, 2 and 3) visa holders can apply for a H4 dependent visa SO include: accounting, computer professionals, engineers, financial analysts, doctors, scientists, architects and lawyers. The term of the visa aligns with the term
Issued for 3 years and extendable for another 3 years H4 visa holder may not hold any kind of employment in the United States Employer can choose to apply for permanent residency or not They may not have social security card or any kind of government issued identification H1B workers are expected to make valuable contribution to American society Some states they are not allowed to drive.
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HiGH TECH WORKERS AND SPOUSES NURSES AND SPOUSES Mostly from urban, metropolitan, northern part of India Mostly from rural and South India –
Middle to upper middle calls backgrounds in India when in Indian Lower middle to middle class background when in India Both spouse proficient in English and had high human capital. Wives often had higher degrees than the professional “skilled” husband. Nurses had mostly BSN degrees. The husbands were comparatively low on human capital. Most did not go to college and did not have English proficiency Religiously diverse but mostly Hindu or Muslim All families of nurses were Christians
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Women drawing on gendered meanings of marriage to cope
Mili: “Suddenly I became this obedient, good housewife and just dedicated my life to keeping my husband happy. I have worked since I was 16 and lived by myself, supported my own education back in India. I never thought I would have to be so dependent economically and mentally. I call it the H-4 syndrome.” I: “You knew you were coming on dependent visa? Why did you choose to come?” Mili: “Well, once you are married you are supposed to be with your husband and take care of him and his household. My dad and Ravish’s family wanted me to join him ASAP after we got married. Not that I did not want to come but had I known I probably would rethink…and now those nuts want grandchildren…I am not falling in that trap…”
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Nurses: Compensatory overemphasis of femininity in family context
Dependent husbands: Reassertion masculinity in family context to maintain male privilege.
Shija on cooking: “This is the only, most real way I can show my kids and my husband that I care for them. Also, I want my kids to grown up eating Malayalee food. It is big part of who we are. I grew up eating my mother’s home cooked meal and so should they. This is least I can do for them. I feel so guilty for being mother who is always gone.” Joseph a dependent husband: “As a man I needed to make sure my family is okay and my wife was getting this opportunity to help our family and for that I would have to sacrifice a little and I was ready for that. I don’t think about these things. Government does what it has to – it is no point getting depressed about this. I am doing my duty of keeping my family secure. That is what a man should do.”
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Social expectations of dependence trumped by gendered cultural beliefs
Some undoing of gender Gina on household income: “I am not quite sure; you have to ask my husband. He is the one who handles all the money things. My salary goes into our account and then he manages it – does what he thinks best. We are still a traditional Indian family. He is still the master of the house. Any major decisions about the kids or money, he takes those decisions. It is important for us as family to give him that respect. Just because he cannot work because of the visa we don’t want him to feel he is not the head of the family.” John: “My children really love me. If they need anything or if they have to share anything, the first person they run to is me, not their mother. It makes me feel important. It is a wonderful feeling to be loved by your children.”
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