SLIDE 46 Patient G: 64-Year-Old Married Woman With Pancreatic Cancer
- G. acknowledges that her tough exterior hides a really soft interior. ‘‘I
am covering up so they cannot really see me.’’ Sometimes she’s trying to hide the fact that she doesn’t remember things and doesn’t want to appear stupid.. She calls everybody sweetheart, pumpkin,
honeybunch because she has a hard time remembering people’s
- names. G. says she is scared. She lets everyone believe that she can
handle it, that she’s a trooper. She pretends everything is fine but it’s
- not. It brings her to tears when she thinks about dying. She doesn’t
want to die. G. says she wants people to know she has these feelings, that although she tries to hide it, there is a storm brewing inside. She feels that if people know that’s how she really feels then she will not have to put up a front anymore.