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Parent Support: How to Navigate Challenging Time

CONSEQUENCES!

MICHAEL SWISHER PARTNERSHIP FOR CHILDREN, YOUTH, & FAMILIES CHILD & FAMILY SERVICES DIVISION

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Welcome! We will begin shortly.

As we’re waiting, please post in the chat box:

your zip code
number of children
schools they attend (add if

you have any pre-k too!)

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Consequences

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Consequencias ARE NOT

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Revenge
A demonstration of our authority
To embarrass or humiliate our children

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Consequences are

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A response to a behavior
Lessons to help them learn
Decisions we make, based on their choices
Consistent

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Model Self Control Show Empathy Start with a Plan

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Consequence Teachers

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Natural Logical Artificial

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Consequences

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Natural

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Consequences

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Logical

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Consequences

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Consequences

Artificial

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Consequences

Let them ‘feel a little pain’…

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Consequences

Let them ‘feel a little pain’… because of their choices

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Consequences – HOW?

Make a list:

Little Infractions Little Consequences

Big Infractions Big Consequences

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Task Specific
Time Specific

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Consequences – How?

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No sticker!
Loss of Privilege

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Consequences

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“Contribuction”

Chores

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Consequences

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Stay (or get) Calm Explain the situation Deliver the consequence

Walk. Away.

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Consequences – In the Moment

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Consequences – What happens if…

I don’t have any ideas?

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Consequences – What happens if…

They get angry?

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Consequences – What happens if…

They get angry? EMPATHY

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Consequences – What happens if…

They “don’t care”?

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Consequences – What happens if…

They “don’t care”? IGNORE…EMPATHIZE

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Consequences – What happens if…

Their behavior gets worse (or they throw a tantrum)?

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Consequences – What happens if…

Their behavior gets worse (or they throw a tantrum)? STAY FIRM; EMPATHIZE +/or IGNORE

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Consequences – What happens if…

It doesn’t work?

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Consequences – What happens if…

It doesn’t work? RE-EVALUATE

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Contact Information

Michael Swisher 703-228-1671 | mswish@arlingtonva.us APCYF

www.apcyf.org/parent-support

703-228-1668 | apcyf@arlingtonva.us

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Questions?

And a little feedback! Let us know how this was. In the chat box, share 1 – 5 how useful this was.

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