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12/23/2013 Charting the Life Course Supporting Families in their role of Fostering Self-Determination in Children Life Course Framework Life is a journey. Our lives are not static, they change every day. Its all about vision. Anything is


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Charting the Life Course

Supporting Families in their role of Fostering Self-Determination in Children

Life Course Framework

Life is a journey. Our lives are not static, they change every day. It’s all about vision. Anything is possible, with the right vision. Everything is connected. What you do today affects your life in the future.

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I Want to be a Cowgirl

Supporting Families in their role of Fostering Self-Determination in Children

Susan Bird

UMKC Institute for Human Development, UCEDD Individual Advocacy & Family Support Team Mom to Elizabeth Contact: birdsk@umkc.edu www.mofamilytofamily.org

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Objectives for Today

 Explore the meaning of

self-determination

 Consider the importance

  • f promoting self-

determination

 Review ideas and

strategies across the life course

What is Self-Determination

Individual capacity associated with disability rights, related to assuming control and the right to make decisions rather than being acted upon by

  • thers.
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Self-Determination

 FREEDOM: to choose  SUPPORT: in ways that are unique to the

individual

 RESPONSIBILITY: to contribute to one’s

community

 ENRICHES: by focusing on the desires & abilities

  • f the individual

 INVOLVES: the individual in all decisions about

him/her (nothing about me without me)

 RESPECTFUL: of the individual

Why is Self-Determination Important?

 Self Determination in High School is related to

positive transition outcomes

 More likely to be employed as adults  Earn more per hour  More likely to express a preference to live outside the

family home

 More likely to have a savings/checking account  Report experiencing a higher quality of life  Better socioeconomic status may lead to better health

  • utcomes
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Elizabeth

“No I can’t walk, I ride a horse!”

How do young people get it?

 Real world experiences

 Taking risks, making mistakes, reflecting on

  • utcomes, trying again with a new strategy

 Open supportive acknowledgement and

discussion of their disability

 Understanding how their disability might affect

academic learning, relationships, employment, participation in community, & the need for supports

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Griffin

“He could be a jockey!”

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Individual with Disability: achievement of self- determination, interdependence, productivity, integration and inclusion in all facets

  • f community life

Birth--Early Child--School--Transition--------------Adulthood-----------------Aging

Self-Determination

within the Family System

*Families: will be supported in ways that maximizes their capacity, strengths and unique abilities so they can best support, nurture, love and facilitate……

*National Definition for “Supporting Families” (2011 Wingspread)

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Abby

“The doctors said I would never walk.”

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Birth-----Early Child----School----Transition---Adulthood-----Aging

Fostering Self-Determination

Community Family Person with Disability

Community Family Disability Services Person with Disability

Uncharted with Supports Charted

Learning to be more self-determined starts early and continues throughout the life course

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5 Months…………….1 year…………………2 years

Fostering Self-Determination for Elizabeth

Community Family Person with Disability

Community Family Disability Services Person with Disability

Uncharted with Supports Charted Medical trajectory stoma

Family Support throughout the Life Course

Supporting the Individual in the Family System

  • Promote making choices
  • Encourage exploring possibilities
  • Promote reasonable risk taking
  • Promote advocacy
  • Help develop self esteem
  • Help set goals and plan
  • Help understand the disabilities/special needs
  • Encourage problem solving
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Shaylee

“These are my kids.”

 Raises:

 Bunnies  Chickens  Goats  3 Llamas  2 Horses  1 Calf

How can Parents/Family Help?

 Provide opportunities

to make meaningful decisions

 Be open to new

possibilities

 Take child/youth’s

dreams seriously

 Have high but realistic

expectations

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Ben

“I want to be a fireman.”

Family Support

 Shift responsibility in

whatever areas you can

 Let go of some control

and decision making power

 Help locate a

self-advocacy group

 View your child as an

adult!

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Andrew

What can you do if you put your mind to it?  5K  10K Half Marathon

Cindy

 One day I came home from elementary school crying. My

mom said: "Cindy, you have to learn to fight your battles for yourself. And your premise should be based on the fact they are not right about you, just ignorant."

 It was the best advice to give a young child. My way of

fighting was to become the best me.

 I felt I was born different to be different. And what a life

that mentality has given me!

“My facial deformity was the greatest gift I have ever been given”

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Calvin

Looks can be deceiving.

Future Vision – Day to Day Nudging

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What do you want to be? Survey

Please take the time to fill out your evaluation of this webinar and tell us what you thought!

surveymonkey.com/s/f2fselfdetermination

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Special Thanks

 MODHSS Special Health Care Needs  Missouri Developmental Disabilities

Council

 DMH Regional Offices & Family Support

Coordinators

For more information

Contact Missouri Family to Family 800-444-0821 mofamilytofamily.org UMKC-Institute for Human Development www.ihd.umkc.edu