- Auckland Chapter
Certified Speaking Professional - CSP - Auckland Chapter Its ALL - - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
Certified Speaking Professional - CSP - Auckland Chapter Its ALL - - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
Certified Speaking Professional - CSP - Auckland Chapter Its ALL about Pressing the Right Buttons Weird or Wired? Nature versus Nurture 60% = Nature Natural genetic wiring - Personality 40%= Nurture Birth Order Childhood Experiences
It’s ALL about Pressing the Right Buttons
Weird
- r
Wired?
60% = Nature
Natural genetic wiring - Personality
40%= Nurture
Birth Order
Childhood Experiences Adult Experiences Culture Belief system
No two alike
Nature versus Nurture
Pick a shape that you associate with:
Assertive Decisive Productive Enthusiastic Talker Funny Easy Going Diplomatic Patient Thoughtful Detailed Tidy
PEACEFUL POWERFUL PRECISE PLAYFUL
PLAYFUL POWERFUL PEACEFUL PRECISE
Playful
Sociable Outgoing Expressive Vivacious
Precise
Factual Well mannered Deliberate Behaved
Peaceful
Balanced Calming Level headed Approachable
Powerful
Competitive Adventurous Persuasive Independent
POWERFUL PLAYFUL PEACEFUL PRECISE
Relationships Efficiency & Organisation Facts & Logic
What they like to talk about
Security & Guarantees
Preferred Way of doing things
Fun Way My Way!
Easy Way Right Way
How could the personality traits and behaviors of each type irritate others?
Stress Busters Playful Precise Peaceful Powerful
Playful Precise Peaceful Powerful
40% 30% 20% 10%
PLAYFUL
Attention Affection Approval
POWERFUL Credit
Loyalty
Appreciation
PRECISE Sensitivity
Space Silence
PEACEFUL Respect
Value Harmony
Active Fun Laid Back Organised
Parent / Partners
“Relationship Intelligence”
Words Touch Acts of Service Gifts Quality Time
Happily Incompatible!
“Celebrate!”
- not just survive the
Christmas Season – only 33 more days!!
Playful
Stylish Entertainer’s delight Open Plan
Precise Minimalist
Classic Heritage Neat and Tidy
PeacefulL
Tranquil environment Easy maintenance Comfortable Hide away
Powerful
Commanding Views Visually impacting Prestigious
POWERFUL PLAYFUL PEACEFUL PRECISE
Oppsy…wrong Gift!!!
Practical Personal items- FUN Time saving devices Well thought through.
That’s better!!
After the Big Meal.
Packing for a Holiday
How might you adjust your approach to meet the needs of an opposite…. Playful → Precise Powerful → Peaceful Precise → Playful Peaceful → Powerful
What we need to do more of
Listening Positive observations Speak up more
Saying “Please” & “Thank you”
So which is the best personality?
“So are YOU Pressing the Right Buttons ???” “The one who is operating
- ut of their strengths”
Results
Relationships Reasons
Focus On
Details
“With the drive and inspiration
- f our people - success is inevitable”
Successful Relationships
= BUSINESS success
Allison Mooney CSP
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