SLIDE 10 2016‐02‐04 North Shore Stress And Anxiety Clinic (2016) 10
Techniques for Challenging Unhelpful Thoughts
Situation Unhelpful Thoughts Thinking Trap or Questions to Challenge this Thought After I tell my mom that it takes my baby 30 minutes to settle down, my mom calms my baby down in about 5 minutes Why can’t I ever settle her down that fast? I should know how to do that – she’s my baby. She probably thinks I’m a terrible mother Should statement Overgeneralizing Labelling
Challenging Unhelpful Thinking Patterns: 4 Steps
STEP THREE: Challenge the unhelpful thinking and replace it with more healthy thinking
- Use “challenging questions” to help you to come up with
an alternative thought that is more realistic & helpful
- If someone I really care about knew I was thinking this
thought, what would they say to me?
- If someone I really care about was in this situation and had
this thought, what would I tell them?
- Is this thought helpful right now? Is there another way of
thinking about this situation that would have better results?
- Have I confused a thought or feeling with a fact?
- What evidence do I have that supports this thought? What
evidence do I have that does not support this thought?
Questions adapted from Greenberger & Padesky (1995), Burns (1999), Bilsker & Paterson (2005)
Challenging Unhelpful Thinking Patterns: 4 Steps
“Challenging questions” continued
- Am I blaming myself for something over which I do not have
complete control?
- What’s a less extreme/more fair way of looking at the
situation? Are there shades of grey that I am ignoring?
- When I have felt this way in the past, what did I think about
- r do that helped me feel better?
- Five years from now, if look back at this situation, will I look
at it any differently?
- Are there any small things that contradict my thoughts that I
might be discounting as not important?
Questions adapted from Greenberger & Padesky (1995), Burns (1999), Bilsker & Paterson (2005)