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Secure Attachment
u Children who are securely attached to the caregiver feel distressed
when the caregiver leaves, happy when a caregiver returns, and are able to be comforted by the caregiver when scared or sad.
u In general, secure children trust that their needs will be met.
Accordingly, they feel capable of going into the world and exploring, knowing that their caregiver will be available to them if they need help.
u Securely attached children tend to mature into securely attached
adults who are able to maintain positive self esteem and healthy relationships with others.
Ambivalent Attachment
u The ambivalently attached child is distressed when the caregiver
leaves but is unable to be comforted upon the caregivers’ return. The ambivalently attached child will continue to cry despite caregivers’ attempts to soothe.
u The ambivalently attached child’s needs have been met
- inconsistently. The child is unsure whether they will be cared for or
not- the caregiver behavior is unpredictable and confusing. This creates tremendous anxiety for the child.
u Ambivalently attached children tend to mature into adults who are
“Preoccupied”. They can demonstrate clingy, anxious behaviors as they worry about their needs going unmet.