Spiritual Care
WHAT IS IT? WHY DO WE DO IT? HOW YOU CAN GET IN ON IT
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Spiritual Care WHAT IS IT? WHY DO WE DO IT? HOW YOU CAN GET IN ON IT Introductions Introduce yourself Why did you choose this class? What do you hope to get from it? What is the Keystone Disaster Spiritual Care Network? A network of
Spiritual Care
WHAT IS IT? WHY DO WE DO IT? HOW YOU CAN GET IN ON IT
Introductions
Introduce yourself Why did you choose this class? What do you hope to get from it?
What is the
Keystone Disaster Spiritual Care Network?
A network of highly trained and credentialed Disaster Spiritual Care responders who are dedicated to providing the highest level of care to those who have experienced a disaster.
What is the
Keystone Disaster Spiritual Care Network?
A 501(c)(3) organization Mission StatementThe Keystone Disaster Spiritual Care Network provides effective spiritual care to those who have experienced natural or human-caused disasters. This care is provided to persons of any religious background as well as those without a religious background. All care will be provided in accordance with the highest standards of disaster spiritual care as outlined in the National Voluntary Organizations Active In Disaster (NVOAD) “Spiritual Care Points of Consensus” and “Spiritual Care Guidelines.” Proselytizing and requiring persons we serve to adhere to any specific religious or spiritual beliefs is strictly and explicitly forbidden.
About this Training
Session One – Introduction
❖ Sunday 6-8Session Two – Foundations
❖ Monday 9-12Session Three – Narrative Identity
❖ Monday 1-4Session Four – Process
❖ 6-8 MondaySession Five – Wrap Up
❖ 9-12 Tuesday IntroductionSpirituality: What is it?
Spirituality not the same as religion What does it mean to you?
IntroductionWhat is Disaster Spiritual Care?
Two settings
Private
Shared Sacred texts Symbols Traditions Community
IntroductionWhat is Disaster Spiritual Care?
Two settings
Public Follow the person into their own spirituality Spirituality does not imply religion Goal: Keep hope alive Prepare for the journey of “Meaning Making”
IntroductionReligious Response vs. Spiritual Response
Both responses are critical. Yet, they are different.
IntroductionWhat is the
Keystone Disaster Spiritual Care Network?
Private Response Public Response Focuses on assisting survivors using shared religious resources (symbols, sacred texts, beliefs) They follow responder Focuses on the survivor’s unique spirituality. Follows them Uses the order suggested in a particular set of beliefs Discovers the order thatNaomi Paget
IntroductionPurpose of Disaster Spiritual Care
To assist the survivor to hold their life’s door
meaning-making
IntroductionHope:
The foundation
Meaning-Making :
Bringing the disaster into one’s life as something of meaning rather than trying to exorcize it from life
IntroductionKey Goal:
Help the affected person to keep the book open to hope for their lives. Stated another way: Help that person find their own inner resources to believe in life before death.
IntroductionNational VOAD Points of Consensus
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
Disaster Spiritual Care helps those affected by disaster to draw upon their own emotional and spiritual resources to find the hope necessary for recovery. WISDOM: “Hope is the foundation of resiliency.”
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
Disaster Spiritual Care provides care to all persons regardless of
contact with one’s religious community or tradition. WISDOM: “All persons have a spiritual core even if it is not a part of a religious system.”
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
Spiritual Care providers recognize that survivors of disaster are
power to serve any ends except the survivors’ well-being. WISDOM: “It is all about recovery, not recruitment.”
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
Survivors often go through “why” questions to “how” questions. ❖“Why did this happen?” ❖“How do I go on?” Throughout, these questions have practical levels and deeply spiritual ones. Spiritual care belongs to the entire life-cycle. WISDOM: “Every disaster has a life-cycle and so do its survivors.”
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
Spiritual care works cooperatively with other responders – especially Behavioral Health providers and local faith-based leaders. Spiritual care providers are trained to detect underlying psychological and emotional conditions which are referred to specialists in those areas. They also recognize that each faith tradition has intricacies which they may not be qualified to interpret. Those intricacies are best addressed by representatives from the survivor’s own faith tradition.
WISDOM: “No one is everyone. Anything is too often nothing.”
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
Stories can not only knit people together, but can re-knit hope and resiliency within the individual. Spiritual stories (even when not framed in spiritual language) have the power to give shape to individual stories and allow the spiritual provider to accompany survivors on what may well be the most difficult journey of their lives.
WISDOM: “The most powerful accompaniment is being with others
through their stories.”
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
Stories can not only knit people together, but can re-knit hope and resiliency within the individual. Spiritual stories (even when not framed in spiritual language) have the power to give shape to individual stories and allow the spiritual provider to accompany survivors on what may well be the most difficult journey of their lives.
WISDOM: “The most powerful accompaniment is being with others
through their stories.”
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
to common principles.
Wanting to help those in distress is common human nature. But, as in other response disciplines, harm can result from untrained response or compromised principles.
WISDOMS: “Always know how to ‘do no harm.’”
“Wanting to help is eclipsed by knowing how and why.”
Introduction8 Things You Should Know About Disaster Spiritual Care
OVERALL WISDOMS
responders to the site of a disaster and is always present after those responders have departed.”
God/The Deity and not of themselves.”
IntroductionGreat Resources
from theNational Disaster Interfaiths Network
Field Guide: General information on America’s religious landscape and the role religious communities play in the culture and in disaster recovery Primer: An exhaustive resource featuring details on the beliefs and practices of 24 religious communities in the United States http://www.n-din.org/ndin_resources/FieldGuideSet.php IntroductionIncident Command Structure
Someone is in charge of each incident. Who it is depends on the scope of the disaster – city, county, state or federal Disaster Spiritual Care responders are a part of this structure and all responders must understand where they belong and to whom they are responsible. ICS 100 and ICS 700 are requirements for credentialing with the Keystone Disaster Spiritual Care Network
https://training.fema.gov/ Search for: ics 100 ics 700 Under no circumstances may anyone ever self-deploy IntroductionMission and Calling
ConnectConnect them to loved ones, services, their faith community (if desired)
PrayPray with (when desired) and for (afterwords)
OpenOpen to Hope, Credo, Quare Credis
AttendAttend to physical needs
DiscernDiscern the who, what, where, when and why
Embed yourself (discover command structure and where you fit in and who you report to)
RootRoot yourself in the sacred turf
CenterCenter yourself
“Never underestimate the power of your ”
happens if they are shattered
Foundations
Session 2 FoundationsShattered Assumptions
chaos
Ronnie Janoff-Bulman, Shattered Assumptions, 1992 Foundations“Another” Chaos Theory
chaos
Chaos is a condition that we humans tolerate least well. When we experience chaos, we are very unsettled until we can form some order within it. But, the ordering does not need to be factual or true. ItDa Bear
FoundationsIf the amygdala only knew!
Foundations“It was raining, the first time I robbed Tiffany’s.”
John Cheever, “Montraldo,” The New Yorker, 1964 FoundationsNarrative Listening: beyond simple listening
“The first time I robbed Tiffany’s, it was raining.” What is this story about?
grandiose liar?
Tiffany’s or about what he actually took?
With a partner using this first line as a beginning, describe a story.
“It was raining, the first time I robbed Tiffany’s.”
FoundationsHow did your story go?
Cheever’s story featured an old lady, and her maid in an Italian villa that has no toilets, adultery, a priest acting unpriestly – as a start.
“It was raining, the first time I robbed Tiffany’s.”
Foundationsperiod at the end of a sentence, a crisis is created.
next sentences.
them.
that choice is made and the next period is placed.
period at the end of a sentence, a crisis is created.
next sentences.
them
that choice is made and the next period is placed.
life
living
FoundationsNarrative Identity
Narrative IdentityNarrative Identity
terms of stories
Narrative Listening:
individuation and to potency of that individual
part of something larger and the strength of that drive
Narrative IdentityNarrative Listening
from a generally bad state to a generally good one
arc from a generally good state to a generally bad one
Narrative IdentityTracey and Nikki Reading of the Tracey an Nikki dialog (see notebook page)
Narrative IdentityNarrative Listening:
Building a Story Map
Nikki:
Narrative Listening:
Building a Story Map
Nikki
Nikki
Narrative Listening:
Building a Story Map
Narrative IdentityNikki and Tracey What would you do differently if you were Tracey?
Narrative Listening:
Building a Story Map
Narrative IdentityNarrative Listening: Story Map
Short thin line, descending Long thick line, ascending Agency Communion Narrative IdentityNarrative Listening: Creedal Statement
Assisting the person to use his/her own story to develop a statement of what they believe about their personal resources for recovery experiencing “life before death” Do you see this in the Nikki and Tracey dialog?
Credo – What I believe Quare Credis – Why I believe it
Narrative Identitypower
Information
Process
Session Four ProcessDealing with the Imbalance of Power
Imbalance of power in a healing relationship is unavoidable
✓ Avoid “Thin” Answers Just as we listen for thin answers, it is important to avoid giving them.
Orleans”
their chaos are very susceptible to thin answers which can damage them down the road
ProcessDealing with the Imbalance of Power
Imbalance of power in a healing relationship is unavoidable
✓ Avoid Making Promises and Giving unverified Information Promises can be harmful to those we serve
responders from keeping even the most sincere promises
but give information very cautiously. What seems certain in one moment may prove to be incorrect in the next. This can break trust.
ProcessDealing with the Imbalance of Power
Imbalance of power in a healing relationship is unavoidable
✓ Use “Teach me” requests “Teach me about what you’ve been through.”
wants to share and to whatever depth is comfortable.
ProcessSpiritual Care Interventions
It is impossible to anticipate the concerns and issues you may encounter from those who have experienced
Trauma and Spirituality in Real Life
Trauma in Real Life
National Voluntary Organizations Active in Disaster (NVOAD) identifies a number of “spiritual dis-ease” symptoms that people may exhibit during and after a disaster:
Trauma and Spirituality in Real Life
Trauma in Real Life (2)
National Voluntary Organizations Active in Disaster (NVOAD) identifies a number of “spiritual dis-ease” symptoms that people may exhibit during and after a disaster:Questions to Anticipate
Why me? Is this an act of God’s will? Why doesn’t God answer my prayers? Why is there evil in the world? How can I forgive?
Spiritual Care InterventionsIs there life after death? Is there life again before death? Why live in a world full of pain? Why do bad things happen to good people?
ProcessSpiritual Do’s and Don’ts
Don’t try to give definitive answers to spiritual questions Don’t impose religious answers on survivors Do affirm their right to question [their] God’s judgment Do know that they may modify their beliefs Do affirm the wrongness or injustice of what has happened. Injustice often is expressed in anger Do emphasize that everyone finds their own pathway to understanding tragedy
Spiritual Care Interventions ProcessTrauma and Spirituality in Real Life
Patience Carter
The guilt of feeling grateful to be alive is heavy. Wanting to smile about surviving but not sure if the people around you are ready. As the world mourns the victims killed and viciously slain, I feel guilty about screaming about my legs in pain. Because I could feel nothing like the other 49 who weren’t so lucky to feel this pain of mine. I never thought in a million years that this could happen. I never thought in a million years that my eyes could witness something so tragic.
Spiritual Care Interventions ProcessTrauma and Spirituality in Real Life
Patience Carter
ProcessTrauma and Spirituality in Real Life
Questions for Discussion
Spiritual Care Interventions 1. What are your overall reactions to Patience’s poem? 2. What are the chances that these feelings will resolve on their own? 3. Refer to the 10 NVOAD “dis-ease” symptoms. Which of those things appear in her poem? 4. Imagine you are talking with Patience. What would you say first after hearing her poem? What additional things would you want to make sure were part of your conversation with her? 5. What internal spiritual resources can you identify in her poem?Exercise
1. Divide into four groups 2. Listen to the scenario 3. Follow the instructor’s directions 4. Active role play for 15 minutes 5. Debrief for 10 minutes 6. Change groups until each has had a chance to fill all 4 roles 7. Final 30 minute debrief of entire group
ProcessWrap Up
Session Five Wrap UpCare for other responders
Spiritual Care includes care for other responders on scene. Disaster responders tend to be “hold it in” types, but the stress and trauma of a disaster can affect them with “secondary trauma” and they may not be comfortable admitting it. Things to look for include the same things we look for in primary trauma victims.
Wrap UpCare for yourself
You cannot help others if you haven’t cared for yourself. It is very hard to admit this. Once again, the same signs of secondary trauma may show up in you! Self care is not
Self care includes:
Credentialing
Credentialing with the Keystone Disaster Spiritual Care Network includes:
Sharpened Your Observation Skills? Let’s see!
Wrap UpKey Points Review
✓ Similarities? ✓ Differences?
believe it”)
Wrap UpWrap Up
1. Questions about anything we’ve covered 2. Questions about KDSCN and credentialing 3. What’s next? 4. Thank you!
Wrap Up