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The Impact of Trauma on Parenting Sasha Stok, PhD May 15, 2018 SMSC Intro Michael Lindsey (PI) and Claude Chemtob (Co- PI) Funded by Annie Casey Foundation and Robin Hood Targeted intervention for mothers with PTSD and children


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The Impact of Trauma on Parenting

Sasha Stok, PhD May 15, 2018

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SMSC Intro

  • Michael Lindsey (PI) and Claude Chemtob (Co-

PI)

  • Funded by Annie Casey Foundation and Robin

Hood

  • Targeted intervention for mothers with PTSD

and children between 3-6 who have child welfare involvement

  • Parenting STAIR (P-STAIR) → Skills Training in

Affective Interpersonal Regulation + Parent Child Interaction Therapy

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Outline

  • Review of childhood trauma and outcomes
  • How childhood trauma impacts adults
  • How PTSD symptoms impact parenting
  • Helping parents with trauma histories
  • Purpose of psychoeducation
  • Strength-based approach
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Adverse Childhood Experiences

DV Physical /Sexual Abuse Neglect Poverty Community Violence Institutional Racism

Greater chance of death, disease, impaired social and emotional functioning, alcohol and drug abuse, trauma and depression, and increased medical care costs

Unstable Housing

Inter- generationa l Trauma

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How Childhood Trauma Impacts Adults

  • Early home life helps child

to develop model of world.

  • When early home life

involves trauma → internal model is distorted.

World is safe vs. World is not safe

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How Childhood Trauma Impacts Relationships

  • Attachment styles developed within context of

trauma can have lasting impact on relationships.

  • Examples:
  • Preoccupied mothers (with unresolved trauma)

present as more hyperactive and in “fight” mode.

  • Dismissive mothers present as more defensive and

tend to detach from interactions that trigger negative emotions.

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How Childhood Trauma Impacts Parenting

A history of childhood trauma can impair a parent’s ability to accurately read and respond to their child’s emotions. “I don’t really know why he’s sad. But I don’t really deal with it…Like, I’ll do the hugging and the “it’s ok” and all that other kind of stuff but I don’t…I try not to feel anything for anything…unless I have to. That’s usually how I deal with it.”

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How PTSD Symptoms Impact Parenting

RE-EXPERIENCING/ TRIGGERS

  • Parenting in itself can

be trigger or reminder

  • f past trauma.
  • Triggers can be scary

for parent and for child, who may not understand.

AVOIDANCE/NUMBING

  • Avoidance of negative

emotions or memory is an adaptive defense mechanism but can impair relationship.

  • May present as

dissociation, substance use or physical or emotional separation form child, HYPERAROUSAL

  • Sensing danger and

threats.

  • Can lead to higher

stress, anxiety and irritability.

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Parenting Beliefs

  • “The world is a tough place. Children need to learn early

to protect themselves.”

  • “I had a rough childhood – in and out of foster care and

now my kid is going through that. Now that he is home, I am going to try my best to make up for the hurt.”

  • “Kids just like to manipulate me, just trying to push my
  • buttons. They cry and fuss over every little thing, so I

just pay them no mind.”

Parenting Beliefs Parenting Styles

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Safety

  • Difficulties assessing risk in potential partners

and difficulties cutting ties with abusive family members.

  • Mother may present as overprotective in some

situations but lacking awareness of dangerous situations in others.

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Helping Parents with History of Trauma

  • Assess parent’s history for trauma or other mental

health needs

  • Disclosure may occur slowly
  • Ask open-ended questions
  • Psychoeducation – fancy word for teaching!
  • Help parents understand their anger, fear, resentment,
  • r avoidance as NORMAL reactions to past trauma.
  • Understand that traumatized parents are not bad. do

not judge or blame them. ALL parents make mistakes!

  • Present behavior is a means to cope with past.
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Helping Parents with History of Trauma

  • Build safe and collaborative relationship
  • Parent is expert!
  • Accept without judgment
  • Be consistent with what you say and do!
  • Strengthen and encourage a parent’s self-

compassion

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Strength-Based Approach

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Strength-Based Approach

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Q & A

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