Introduction A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity; an - - PDF document

introduction
SMART_READER_LITE
LIVE PREVIEW

Introduction A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity; an - - PDF document

3/2/2018 Conflict Resolution Difficult Patients Difficult Employees Section I Introduction A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty. - Sir Winston Churchill 2 Conflict


slide-1
SLIDE 1

3/2/2018 1

Conflict Resolution

Difficult Patients – Difficult Employees

Section I

Introduction

“A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the

  • pportunity in every difficulty.”
  • Sir Winston Churchill

2

Conflict

  • Part of organization
  • Arises because people care
  • Beneficial for finding the

best solution

  • Destructive when focused
  • n winning

3

slide-2
SLIDE 2

3/2/2018 2

Conflict

  • Elements
  • Emotional reaction
  • Communication

strategies

4

Section II

Elements that exist during conflict

5

Elements that exist during conflict

  • What happened
  • Feelings
  • Identity

6

slide-3
SLIDE 3

3/2/2018 3

Elements that exist during conflict

  • What happened

– Who said what? – Who is right? – Who is to blame?

7

Elements that exist during conflict

  • Feelings

– Are feelings valid? – Are feelings appropriate? – What about the other person’s feelings?

8

Elements that exist during conflict

  • Identity

– Competent or incompetent? – Good or bad? – Worthy of acceptance?

9

slide-4
SLIDE 4

3/2/2018 4

Section III

Two sides of conflict

10

Personal

  • Individual Concern

– Person thinks about how issues affect him personally

11

Business

  • Work responsibility

– Focus on business issue and outcome – Make decisions that support personal and business

  • bjectives

12

slide-5
SLIDE 5

3/2/2018 5

Section IV

Managing your emotions

13

Manage your emotions

  • Don’t take it personally – stay focused on the

issue

  • Determine how the issue

affects you

  • How do your emotions

contribute to the interaction?

14

Section V

Communication Strategies

15

slide-6
SLIDE 6

3/2/2018 6

Communication strategies

  • Influence the emotional reaction
  • Provide support
  • Come face-to-face

16

Communication strategies

  • Influence the emotional reaction

– Encourage person to talk about concerns – Listen carefully – Question underlying issues – Summarize understanding

17

Communication strategies

  • Provide support

– Be willing to partner – Collaborative problem-solving

18

slide-7
SLIDE 7

3/2/2018 7

Communication strategies

  • Come face-to-face

– Useful when person resists moving to business side – Only works if person feels supported by you

19

Communication strategies

  • Deal with the behavior

– Address distractions – Attempt to stop inappropriate behaviors

20

Communication strategies

  • Be the coach

– Pose questions – Get person to identify consequences

21

slide-8
SLIDE 8

3/2/2018 8

Communication strategies

  • Make the decision

– If person doesn’t budge, you must make final decision

22

Section VI

Conclusion

23

Summary of main points

  • Resolving conflict takes practice
  • Identify the cues
  • Constructive vs. destructive
  • All maintain dignity
  • Elements of conflict
  • Managing your emotions
  • Communication Strategies

24

slide-9
SLIDE 9

3/2/2018 9

Books

25

Questions

Millie Rosser, PHR, SHRM-CP

  • Sr. HR Manager

Millie.rosser@staffone.com

214-736-7293

26