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Effective Communication for Effective Representation of Legal Clients
Old Dominion Bar Association Annual Meeting and Conference ~ Virginia Beach, VA ~ May 31, 2013
Speaker: Helivi L. Holland, Esq., City Attorney for the City of Suffolk, VA; Former Director of VA Department
- f Juvenile Justice
Objective: Learn techniques for effective communication with various individuals – including nice and difficult clients, client families, co-workers, attorneys, judges and others that just show up. This session will be interactive, comedic and musical. I. Differences between legal clients and other people in which you interact.
- A. “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie
- i. May not be able to influence the legal client to your way of thinking, but you must still be
able to represent/advocate for them.
- B. “ Working with Difficult People” by Ralph Lapin, Esq.
- i. Your legal client, on many instances, may not be working with you regarding a successful
- utcome of their case, but may be working against you unknowingly. Compromising may
not be an option in compliance with the rules of law, rules of ethics or the rules of professional conduct.
- C. “Working with Difficult People” by Muriel Solomon
- i. “People who frustrate, impede, maneuver, undermine, plot, connive and whine” that are co-
workers are different than legal clients with the same attributes because you have to convince the courts that your legal client does not have those attributes.
- D. Somewhere in between is your legal client
- i. Great Communicator and Hostile Communicator
- ii. Highly Educated and Illiterate
- iii. Truth Teller and Liar
- iv. Seeking Justice and Wanting Revenge
- v. Avid Court TV Watcher and Never Been to Court
II. Why You Should Care?
- A. Rules of Ethics
- B. Standards of Conduct
- C. Rules of Professional Conduct
- D. Productivity, Morale and Job Security
- E. Legally speaking…Why You Should Care