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THE MARRIAGE OF COMMUNICATION & CODE BY ANDREA GOULET & M. SCOTT FORD FOUNDERS, CORGIBYTES @andreagoulet WHEN I We remodel existing WAS software to make it stable, IN HIGH scalable, and secure. SCHOOL.


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THE MARRIAGE OF COMMUNICATION & CODE

@andreagoulet

BY ANDREA GOULET & M. SCOTT FORD FOUNDERS, CORGIBYTES

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We remodel existing software to make it stable, scalable, and secure.

WHEN I 
 WAS 
 IN HIGH 
 SCHOOL….

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We remodel existing software to make it stable, scalable, and secure.

THERE 
 WAS 
 THIS GIRL…

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A DECADE OR SO LATER…

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@mscottford

I NEEDED MARKETING HELP

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THEN I STUMBLED ON THIS BLOGGER…

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SHE LOOKED FAMILIAR

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AHA! I THOUGHT…

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SOON AFTER, WE MET BY A POOL…

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SHE HAD LOTS OF IDEAS…

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BUT I COULDN’T HIRE HER.

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SO I OFFERED HER 51%…

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SHE SAID YES…

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A FEW YEARS LATER, I ASKED ANOTHER QUESTION…

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SHE SAID YES AGAIN…

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IT’S BEEN AN AMAZING EXPERIENCE TO GROW TOGETHER…

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BUT OMG IT’S BEEN TOUGH TO WORK TOGETHER SOMETIMES!

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MARKETERS & DEVELOPERS DON’T USUALLY GET ALONG…

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SO WE WENT TO COUPLES COUNSELING…

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“I” STATEMENTS

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COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #1

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HOW TO NOT SOUND LIKE THIS GUY

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I FEEL … WHEN YOU… BECAUSE…

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THIS WORKS FOR CODE REVIEWS TOO…

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BEFORE

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AFTER

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LISTEN, VERIFY, VALIDATE

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COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #2

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LISTEN VERIFY VALIDATE

put your feelings 


  • n the shelf

don’t interrupt active listening upon completion anything else? after each 
 phrase empathy feelings matter

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SHAME VS. GUILT

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COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #3

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  • DR. BRENÉ BROWN
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GUILT

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SHAME

“I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH. I’LL NEVER LEARN HOW TO BE A MARKETER/CODER.”

source: h*p://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419/

“THIS IS A SKILL. IT’S NEW AND I’M FRUSTRATED. BUT I CAN LEARN IT.”

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Shame corrodes the very part of us that believes we are capable of change.”

  • DR. BRENÉ BROWN
Source: I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power And Courage In a Culture of Shame
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BLAME

DISCHARGING DISCOMFORT AND PAIN WE FEEL FROM SHAME. IT HAS AN INVERSE RELATIONSHIP WITH ACCOUNTABILITY.

source: h*p://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419/
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YES, AND…

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COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #4

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YOU’LL BE SHOCKED HOW OFTEN YOU DO THIS

SHATTERING GLASS

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@andreagoulet @andreagoulet

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WELL, ACTUALLY

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WELL, ACTUALLY YES, AND @andreagoulet

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RULES OF IMPROV

  • 1. SAY YES
  • 2. SAY YES, AND
  • 3. MAKE STATEMENTS
  • 4. THINK HAPPY ACCIDENTS
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RADICAL CANDOR

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COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #5

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CARE PERSONALLY CHALLENGE
 DIRECTLY

Source: www.radicalcandor.com

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CARE PERSONALLY CHALLENGE
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RUINOUS EMPATHY

Source: www.radicalcandor.com

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CARE PERSONALLY CHALLENGE
 DIRECTLY

MANIPULATIVE INSINCERITY RUINOUS EMPATHY

Source: www.radicalcandor.com

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CARE PERSONALLY CHALLENGE
 DIRECTLY

OBNOXIOUS AGGRESSION MANIPULATIVE INSINCERITY RUINOUS EMPATHY

Source: www.radicalcandor.com

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CARE PERSONALLY CHALLENGE
 DIRECTLY

RADICAL CANDOR OBNOXIOUS AGGRESSION MANIPULATIVE INSINCERITY RUINOUS EMPATHY

Source: www.radicalcandor.com

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RADICAL CANDOR

Source: www.radicalcandor.com

HUMBLE HELPFUL IMMEDIATE PRIVATE (CRITICISM) DOESN’T PERSONALIZE PUBLIC (PRAISE)

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INCEPTION INTERRUPTIONS

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COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #6

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@andreagoulet @andreagoulet

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COMMUNICATION IS A SKILL

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COMMUNICATION IS A SKILL

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YOU CAN LEARN.

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COMMUNICATION IS A SKILL

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YOU CAN LEARN. IF SCOTT CAN, YOU CAN TOO.

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CONTACT INFO

@andreagoulet @mscottford @corgibytes corgibytes.com LegacyCode.Rocks

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QUESTIONS?