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IASA Mid-South Chapter Conference October 25 – 27 2015 September 16-18, 2015 Louisville Downtown Marriott

BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies Commonsense Ideas on How To Get Along Better with the Important People in Your Life BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com 5

An Exercise BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com 6

History of BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies 10 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Marriage Partner Since 1967 13 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Business Leader Since 1967 14 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

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Parent Since 1969 16 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Grandparent Since 2002 Abigail Marie Walker 17 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Involved with IASA Since 1970 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com 18

National Seminar Company 1981 Learning Resources? 19 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

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First Person You Must Learn to Lead Is … • Yourself BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com 24

BASIC Strategy • Understand Behavior and keep your Balance • Begin each circumstance Anew • Be Situational • Watch the “ I ” • Practice Communication, Care and Commonsense BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com 25

Understand Behavior 28 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Understanding Behavior – Key Point • When your children make the most important decisions of their life…….. • … chances are you will not be there 37 BASIC Relationship and Leadership www.BasicRelationships.com

Keep Balance In Your Personal Life 39 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Keep Balance In Your Professional Life 49 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Begin Each Circumstance Anew 57 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Be Situational 68 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Watch the “I” 79 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Watch the “I” – Beliefs and Expectations • Your Attitude – Reflects your past…. – Describes your present … – Predicts your future – Source: Orchestrating Your Attitude by Lee J. Colan 85 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Improve Communications 89 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Handle People With Care 103 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

Use Your Common Sense BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com 107

Key Take Aways “The difference between mediocrity and success is often the difference between common knowledge and successful application of same.” – Somerset Maugham Remember, Choose and Apply “People need to be reminded more often than they need to be instructed” – Samuel Johnson 112 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

You’re Always One Choice Away From Changing Your Life • One tree can change a forest • One smile can begin a friendship • One hand can lift a sole • One word can frame the goal • One candle can wipe out the darkness • One laugh can conquer gloom • One hope can raise our spirits • And one choice can change your life • Your life today is what your choices have made it, but with new choices, you can change directions this very moment – Mac Anderson BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com 113

BASIC Strategy Review • Understand Behavior and keep your Balance • Begin each circumstance Anew • Be Situational • Watch the “ I ” • Practice Communication, Care and Common sense • “The BASIC truths are too important to be new.” 114 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

What Will You Use? • What will you use and still be using 60 days from today? • Share one thing you learned, or were reminded of, that you will use BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com 115

In Conclusion 117 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com

The End (for now) 118 BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies www.BasicRelationships.com