IASA Mid-South Chapter Conference October 25 27 2015 September - - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
IASA Mid-South Chapter Conference October 25 27 2015 September - - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
IASA Mid-South Chapter Conference October 25 27 2015 September 16-18, 2015 Louisville Downtown Marriott BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies Commonsense Ideas on How To Get Along Better with the Important People in Your Life
BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies Commonsense Ideas on How To Get Along Better with the Important People in Your Life
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An Exercise
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History of BASIC Relationship and Leadership Strategies
Marriage Partner Since 1967
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Business Leader Since 1967
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Parent Since 1969
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Grandparent Since 2002 Abigail Marie Walker
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Involved with IASA Since 1970
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National Seminar Company 1981
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Learning Resources?
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First Person You Must Learn to Lead Is …
- Yourself
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BASIC Strategy
- Understand Behavior
and keep your Balance
- Begin each
circumstance Anew
- Be Situational
- Watch the “I”
- Practice
Communication, Care and Commonsense
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Understand Behavior
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Understanding Behavior – Key Point
- When your children make the most
important decisions of their life……..
- … chances are you will not be there
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Keep Balance In Your Personal Life
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Keep Balance In Your Professional Life
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Begin Each Circumstance Anew
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Be Situational
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Watch the “I”
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Watch the “I” – Beliefs and Expectations
- Your Attitude
– Reflects your past…. – Describes your present … – Predicts your future
– Source: Orchestrating Your Attitude by Lee J. Colan
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Improve Communications
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Handle People With Care
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Use Your Common Sense
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Key Take Aways
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“The difference between mediocrity and success is often the difference between common knowledge and successful application of same.” – Somerset Maugham
Remember, Choose and Apply
“People need to be reminded more often than they need to be instructed” – Samuel Johnson
You’re Always One Choice Away From Changing Your Life
- One tree can change a forest
- One smile can begin a friendship
- One hand can lift a sole
- One word can frame the goal
- One candle can wipe out the darkness
- One laugh can conquer gloom
- One hope can raise our spirits
- And one choice can change your life
- Your life today is what your choices have made it, but with new
choices, you can change directions this very moment – Mac Anderson
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BASIC Strategy Review
- Understand Behavior and keep
your Balance
- Begin each circumstance Anew
- Be Situational
- Watch the “I”
- Practice Communication,
Care and Common sense
- “The BASIC truths are too
important to be new.”
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What Will You Use?
- What will you use and still be using 60
days from today?
- Share one thing you learned, or were
reminded of, that you will use
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In Conclusion
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The End (for now)
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