HOW GRATITUDE CAN IMPROVE STUDENTS AND SCHOOLS: EDUCATING HEARTS - - PDF document
HOW GRATITUDE CAN IMPROVE STUDENTS AND SCHOOLS: EDUCATING HEARTS - - PDF document
2/28/2017 HOW GRATITUDE CAN IMPROVE STUDENTS AND SCHOOLS: EDUCATING HEARTS AND MINDS IN THE 21ST CENTURY Giacomo Bono, PhD OVERVIEW OF WEBINAR Intro to Giacomo (2 min) Why I do this research? Problems it tackles. (5 min) What is
2/28/2017 2 My story of when achievement started to matter to me in 5th and 6th grade thanks to a teacher who used a personal touch to motivate student learning.
- She let us win points on quizzes,
which we could accumulate to be able to buys full-size candies!
SCHOOLING & FAMILIES TODAY
- Central tenet of teaching = build positive relationships
with students, BUT…
- testing
- punitive approach to student misbehavior
- large classrooms
- Busy parents, commercial forces, 24/7 info superhighway,
traditions changing…
- pressure to compete, stand out
- depression, anxiety
Supports for youths’ emotional development?
2/28/2017 3 NATURAL SUPPORTS FOR EMOTIONAL COMPETENCE, CHARACTER…
- With gratitude, tackle big problems…
- All kids need supportive, trusting
relationships to grow and improve
- personal engagement/motivation, positive
relationships with youth, and everyday emotional support
- kids get a safe classroom climate or
home where they feel a sense of belonging & hope for potential
- Significant keys to academic success
POSITIVE EMOTIONS
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WHAT IS GRATITUDE?
- G = ability to recognize, acknowledge, and
respond positively for benefits we receive & for benefactors in our lives.
- G = Choice (intentional all around)
- G = Most malleable character
strength, most linked to happiness, link to EQ?
HOW GRATITUDE PROMOTES WELL-BEING & DEVELOPMENT
1. Moral Barometer
- “Benefit detector”
2. Moral Reinforcer
- Recipient = good ROI
3. Moral Motivator
- Direct & upstream reciprocity
4. Self-Improvement & Generativity
- goals & self-regulation
- moral anchoring
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BENEFITS FOR ADOLESCENTS
- Mental Health & Life
Satisfaction
- Physical health
(exercise & diet)
- Materialism
- Strong Relationships
- Builds Community
- Intrinsic Motivation
(Flow)
- Behavior (Conduct)
BENEFITS TO BEHAVIOR
Self-Control Antisocial Gratitude Life Satisfaction Delinquency Gratitude Antisocial =
Hit/pushed/kicked/picked on peers
Left peer out of a game
Spread rumors
Broke a peer’s things
Threatened someone to get your way Delinquency =
Principal’s office
Suspended
Skipping school
Bring alcohol or drugs to school
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A POSITIVE YOUTH DEVELOPMENT VIEW
- All children have strengths
- All families, schools, & communities have assets –
- r “nutrients” of healthy, positive development
for igniting and guiding use of those strengths
- The key to PYD is creating a
good fit between a child’s strengths and ecological assets
CAN WE TEACH GRATEFUL THINKING?
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0.5 1 1.5 2 2.5 3
pre post
control curriculum
Elementary school effects so far? Results 1. Control vs. Curriculum Classes Elementary School Results - 2: Significant changes from pre to post for curriculum classes in:
- Benefactor Intention
- Grateful Affect
- Antisocial Behavior
- Validation & Caring
- Help & Guidance
- Companion/Recreation
- Intimacy & Exchange
- Friendship Satisfaction
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Middle/High School Results?
Significant changes from pre to post in (compared to a control group):
- Less depression
- Less anxiety
- Better conduct
- More hope
- More search for meaning
BENEFIT APPRAISALS
- 1. Personal Value/Meaning of Help or Gift
- Fun? Interesting to you? Did you need it? Useful to you?
Something you’ve been wanting?
- 2. Cost to Benefactor
- Did they go out of their way for you? What did they give up to do
that for you? Did they put in a lot of effort for you?
- 3. Prosocial Intention of Benefactor***
- Why do they believe in you? How are they investing in you? What
do they inspire you to do?
classroom discussions, self-reflection, role playing activities, and strengths-use In class (English, Health, Leadership), SSR, Advisory
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You each have gifts, are a gift to the world STRATEGIES FROM GRATITUDE & PURPOSE CURRICULUM
- Focus on promoting grateful thinking & purpose
- Use benefit appraisals + journal + thank you letters/notes
+ gratitude visits + savor walks + gratitude tree
- SEE, SAVOR & SPEAK the good, SERVE SOCIETY
- Eight 50-min flexible and scalable lessons
- Grades 4-12, teacher-delivered
Teacher & students have more meaningful interactions Who & what matters, support better choices & intentionality through gratitude, & spark big plans!
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MORE STRATEGIES FROM THE CURRICULUM
- Goals = Discuss & apply gratitude broadly
- Reflect on & thank benefactors
- “My Gratitude Journal”
- Gratitude buckets/wall, appreciating each other
- Discuss Video clips
- Read Thank
You Mr. Falker (by Patricia Polacco)
- Write/reflect when people intentionally help us through
difficulty/doubt >>> write their own version as an autobiographical cartoon
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LETTERS OF THANKS
Dear _Person’s name_, Thank you so much for _(describe the kinds of things they do they do to help you)__. This has really helped me _(describe how their actions have benefitted you)__. I also really appreciate how you __(describe other things that they do to help you or make your life better_. I realize that _(describe what it costs them to help you in these ways)_. Your actions show me _(say why you think this person chooses to help you)_. I _(describe how you feel about this person)_. Thank you, _____
- Want lesson materials? Email gratitude@berkeley.edu
and we’ll email them to you!
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