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T ECH Addiction Medford Oregon - October 20 Smart Phones & Smarter Parents Do they need a phone NOW? External Internal Responsible Motivation Parent Coach Teach & Mentor & Discipline d l Not Responsible i h C Birth

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TECH

Addiction

Smart Phones & Smarter Parents

Medford Oregon - October 20

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Do they need a phone NOW?

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Age Birth “Adult”

Parent C h i l d

Responsible Not Responsible

Teach & Discipline Coach & Mentor Motivation Internal External

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If they don’t own the “off” button, who does?

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Age Birth “Adult”

Parent Child

Responsible Not Responsible

Extreme 1- I got this for you

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Extreme 2 - You figure it out Age Birth

Parent Child

Responsible Not Responsible

Distrust Self-Protection

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AT WHAT AGE?

AMERICAN ACADEMY OF PEDIATRICS 2016

▸ < 18 Months - Avoid except video-

chatting

▸ 18-24 months - 1 hour high-quality

programing with parent participation

▸ 2-5 yrs - 1 hour per day high-quality

programing

▸ 6+ - consistent limits ▸ All ages - Designated media-free

times as well as locations.

“Problems begin when media use displaces physical activity, hands-on exploration and face-to-face social interaction in the real world, which is critical to learning. Too much screen time can also harm the amount and quality of sleep.”

https://www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-aap/aap-press-room/Pages/American-Academy-of-Pediatrics-Announces-New-Recommendations-for-Childrens-Media-Use.aspx

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Age does not equal readiness

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Trustworthiness Builds Trust

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What features do you want/need?

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What features do they want?

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Empathy

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Risky Areas

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“50% OF TEENS WOULD ACTUALLY CHANGE THEIR ONLINE BEHAVIOR IF THEY KNEW THEIR PARENTS WERE WATCHING”

McAfee - The Digital Divide: How the Online Behavior of Teens is Getting Past Parents

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YOU OWN IT

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NO EXPECTATION OF PRIVACY

HELPING OUR KIDS

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PHONES GO TO SLEEP @ NIGHT

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DUMBER PHONES

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DUMBER PHONES

APPS

▸ Parents install apps ▸ Stop in-app

purchases

▸ Watch for vault &

ghost apps

▸ Search for hidden

apps and folders

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DUMBER PHONES

TIMES

▸ Stupid comes

ut at night

▸ School/Study

time

▸ Family time

1 hour, 1 day, 1 week

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DUMBER PHONES

ACCOUNTABILITY

▸ Filtered Internet ▸ Monitored Internet ▸ No “Stealth” mode ▸ All Passwords

including social media

▸ Monitor Texting

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WHAT IF YOU JUST DON’T GET WHAT THEY ARE SAYING?

TEXT CODE

▸ 53X = sneaky wat to type sex ▸ KMS = kill myself ▸ LH6 - let’s have sex ▸ KYS = kill yourself ▸ MOS = mom over the

shoulder

▸ POS = parent over shoulder ▸ CD9 = code 9, parents around ▸ GNOC = get naked on camera ▸ 99 = parents are gone ▸ WTTP = want to trade photos?

https://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/columnist/2017/05/21/sneaky-teen-texting-codes-what-they-mean-when-worry/101844248/

▸ LMIRL = let’s meet in real life ▸ 1174 = meet at a party spot ▸ IWSN = I want sex now ▸ CU46 = see you for sex ▸ FWB = friends with benefits ▸ ADR = what’s your address ▸ MPFB = my personal f***

buddy

▸ PAL = parents are listening ▸ TWD = texting while driving ▸ GYPO = get your pants off

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DUMBER PHONES

APPLE PRODUCTS

▸ Screen Time & Stronger

Parental Control w/ IOS 12

▸ Usage Tracking ▸ Down-time ▸ App Limits ▸ Content Restriction ▸ Account based

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DUMBER PHONES

ANDROID PHONES

▸ Google Family Link (under 13) ▸ families.google.com ▸ Norton Family Parental Control ▸ Kasperksy (Safe Kids App) ▸ App use and screen time ▸ Monitor calls and texts ▸ Location services ▸ ESET Parental Control

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What if they are using someone else’s phone

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Technology can’t parent

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Helping Kids Recover

6 Steps Toward Freedom

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#1 - FOCUS ON POSITIVE - WHAT DRIVES YOU TO SAFETY?

6 STEPS TO DISCOVERING FREEDOM

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#2 - FOCUS ON RECOVERY OVER ABSTINENCE

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#3 - INCREASE RESISTANCE

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#4 - PURSUE YOUR WORST FEARS

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#5 - DEVELOP AND WORK A PLAN

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WHAT DO YOU WANT TO THINK ABOUT

#6 - RENEW YOUR MINDS

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PHILIPPIANS 4:8

Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic,

compelling, gracious—the best, not the

worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to

praise, not things to curse.

Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic,

compelling, gracious—the best, not the

worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to

praise, not things to curse.

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